Galian Beast;4609795 said:
I think we're confused about what caring means...
the fact that you clicked on something means you DO care, if you didn't care you wouldn't investigate... I've thought that was pretty simple...
If you care what other peoples opinions on it are, then guess what... you STILL care... maybe you just don't realize it... but even then that's mind boggling.
I think you are confused about what "caring" means; I don't believe that I am. Put it like this: because I choose to open a thread, then act on my choice by clicking to open and read a thread -- all or part -- does NOT mean I care. Sorry. Poor argument to try to make, IMO.
Opening and/or reading a thread might just be about curiosity, or it may indicate some possible interest... may even just mean I was bored and wanted to read what others had to say about the thread topic, then see whether I'm moved to feel anything at all about what I read.
To crosscheck my thinking, I typed, "what does it mean to care" into Google's search bar. Here is the first set of definitions for "care" my Google search turned up:
care/ke(ər/
Noun: The provision of what is necessary for the health, welfare, maintenance, and protection of someone or something.
Verb: Feel concern or interest; attach importance to something: "they don't care about human life".
Synonyms: noun. worry - concern - attention - solicitude - trouble
................. verb. mind
I have no emotional involvement with regard to Anderson Cooper, the person, or the subject matter of him being gay, or the fact that he chose to publicly proclaim he is gay. None of it matters to me on a level of being concerned about it,
i.e. I really, honestly, most assuredly DO NOT care about the thread topic of AC or his personal lifestyle choices.
If he'd illegally and/or inappropriately killed somebody, yeah, then I might care; it would depend on the particulars. Even opening a thread on a topic like that would only suggest interest, at most, not caring. I couldn't get emotionally invested until I thought I had an understanding of the facts, and took them to heart enough to allow them to matter to me, causing me to care.