Anybody Else Single and Attracted To A Married Woman?

I don't understand this sort of situation to be perfectly honest with you.

So lets say something does happen between the two of you....why? What good will that have done you? Are you seriously going to look to take it from the casual screwing around and go to actually dating?

I mean if she's a married woman and she starts messing around with you then how would you ever trust her to have any sort of actual relationship with her? If she cheated on her husband with you then it's pretty much about as sure a thing as there is on this Earth that she would cheat on you in the future as well.


It's just a bad all around situation that anyone and everyone should absolutely avoid at all costs. Find attractive single women to be talking to, flirting with, and messing with.


Then again maybe you're looking for something that means no strings attached for you and you're perfectly okay with potentially screwing up someone elses life, who did nothing to do you, so that you can have your fun and feel like you don't have to worry about ever having to have any level of actual commitment. If that's who you are then I'd suggest you take a good, long, hard look in the mirror and rethink your life and priorities.
 
BraveHeartFan said:
I don't understand this sort of situation to be perfectly honest with you.

So lets say something does happen between the two of you....why? What good will that have done you? Are you seriously going to look to take it from the casual screwing around and go to actually dating?

I mean if she's a married woman and she starts messing around with you then how would you ever trust her to have any sort of actual relationship with her? If she cheated on her husband with you then it's pretty much about as sure a thing as there is on this Earth that she would cheat on you in the future as well.


It's just a bad all around situation that anyone and everyone should absolutely avoid at all costs. Find attractive single women to be talking to, flirting with, and messing with.


Then again maybe you're looking for something that means no strings attached for you and you're perfectly okay with potentially screwing up someone elses life, who did nothing to do you, so that you can have your fun and feel like you don't have to worry about ever having to have any level of actual commitment. If that's who you are then I'd suggest you take a good, long, hard look in the mirror and rethink your life and priorities.
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Makes too much sense!
 
Stryker44 said:
Anybody else in this boat or ever been? To boot, this person is my new boss (she's an assistant principal at the new school I'm working at for the end of this year and possibly next year). Just felt an instantaneous vibe with her and most people I've worked with in administrative positions have been totally *****y/cranky/on power trips.

Going to have to be careful not to come here during work now lol. In a way this is exhilarating but it also sucks at the same time. Sucks to want what you can't have, but its also great to enjoy coming to work and feel a camraderie with the administration. The principal is also a really nice, but is a dude lol.
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gift her husband a free ticket to some place where they is strife, ongoing dissension. With luck he will be swallowed up by . . . no, that would be wrong.
Hey, ax the new boss is she half a sister. she might be a good looking and younger to boot.
 
BraveHeartFan said:
I don't understand this sort of situation to be perfectly honest with you.

So lets say something does happen between the two of you....why? What good will that have done you? Are you seriously going to look to take it from the casual screwing around and go to actually dating?

I mean if she's a married woman and she starts messing around with you then how would you ever trust her to have any sort of actual relationship with her? If she cheated on her husband with you then it's pretty much about as sure a thing as there is on this Earth that she would cheat on you in the future as well.


It's just a bad all around situation that anyone and everyone should absolutely avoid at all costs. Find attractive single women to be talking to, flirting with, and messing with.


Then again maybe you're looking for something that means no strings attached for you and you're perfectly okay with potentially screwing up someone elses life, who did nothing to do you, so that you can have your fun and feel like you don't have to worry about ever having to have any level of actual commitment. If that's who you are then I'd suggest you take a good, long, hard look in the mirror and rethink your life and priorities.
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And how.

In addition, what if her husband finds out and believes in "old fashioned justice?"

That stuff does happen.
 
Been there, done that.

Banged one of my subordinates for a while. She was unhappily married and I was unhappily engaged.

A jealous coworker found out and snitched, so I got fired.

Then, I beat his *** and left the relationship I was unhappy in.

Probably the best thing that ever happened to me, considering how much happier I am with my life.
 
Gemini Dolly said:
I have a friend, who was in a similar situation, but she was the single teacher and the new male school counselor was the married one. My friend is pretty, and the new guy is handsome and she flirted hardcore with him going into his office to talk about "students" or whatever, but he never took the bait. One day my friend asked him to join her for drinks and he said he could not because his wife would not like that. He did not last long in our school and transferred to another school. But I remember thinking, WOW, there are some men out there with some self control and morals. Who would of thought? Good on him. As far as my friend, she moved on to another guy, who ended up having a girlfriend he forget to mention about. LOL.
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So that "friend" is really you, isn't it? It's okay to come clean. Clear the air. :D
 
No worries - I would never act on such an attraction. Just wondered if others have been in the same boat.
 
Stryker44 said:
No worries - I would never act on such an attraction. Just wondered if others have been in the same boat.
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Dude, just get it out of your system and bang one. It would be like hitting a PR in the gym. Everyone remembers that first 225lb bench press.
 
sureletsrace said:
Been there, done that.

Banged one of my subordinates for a while. She was unhappily married and I was unhappily engaged.

A jealous coworker found out and snitched, so I got fired.

Then, I beat his *** and left the relationship I was unhappy in.

Probably the best thing that ever happened to me, considering how much happier I am with my life.
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Real man, right here!
 
The question you gave to ask yourself is:

"Does she gave a weird fetish for janitors?"

If not, you've got no shot
 
REDVOLUTION said:
I am surprised the mods of cowboyszone don't have an issue with this.

This is a "family friendly" forum and this is poor morals issue. Discussing/promoting unfamily like activity.
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Tell me the CowboysZone rule it breaks and I will look into it.
 
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