Anybody Else Single and Attracted To A Married Woman?

[Cover 2]

I currently am.

I'm just waiting for my grandma to leave her husband. I hope she gives me a chance.

 

[LittleBoyBlue]

If you knew the lives I ruined and hurt, you would see things differently. I learned my lesson , but that doesn't change the fact that I had a good time before I did.


Those affairs was really fun until reality slapped me in the face. I realized it was a selfish thing to do. There is nothing wrong with appreciating women, but crossing that line leads to misery. I know firsthand. If I didn't

regret it,

I would be visiting one of my old flames that sent me a couple text today. I told her no thanks . I am not that person now. When I remarried, that stuff stopped. It has never happened again.

Hey all good. I don't care. Your posts are funny.

But you can't help but state the fun.

 

[sureletsrace]

Anyone who's leaving an established relationship after having already started another one likely hasn't learned a thing. If they had, it wouldn't have taken a knight in shining armor to end the poor relationship they were previously in. They would have recognized they were in a poor relationship and presumably would have ended it long before prince charming came along.

There are exceptions of course, but generally speaking..........people are who they are.

More importantly, being in the "wrong" relationship doesn't give someone a free pass to be deceitful and dishonest because there are plenty of reasons for why a relationship can be "wrong". Additionally, it's not like people get married without having some idea as to whether or not their relationship can work.

If you were to ask couples who started their relationship on a lie, would more than 50% ultimately stay together or would more than 50% ultimately split?

I pretty much agree with all of this. I think my situation was more of an exception than most.

What really is sad is that there are so many people in relationships that don't want to be in the one they're in.

 

[TellerMorrow34]

I pretty much agree with all of this. I think my situation was more of an exception than most.

What really is sad is that there are so many people in relationships that don't want to be in the one they're in.

Yes there are. I have lots of people I work with, some of them even friends of mine, who are in relationships that they really don't want to be in, or aren't happy in, but for one reason or another think they have no choice but to stay in them.

It's sad.

 

[jnday]

Hey all good. I don't care. Your posts are funny.

But you can't help but state the fun.

Well, my point is that it's all fun and games until the reality of the situation hits home. Maybe fun is not the best choice of words. There was excitement and a good time involved. Most people that has affairs do it because of boredom. The affair does bring excitement. For many, it is not a sexual thing as much as it the attention recieved. I joke about it, but it is a very serious matter when you start breaking up families and hurting people. I still appreciate pretty women, but I have been 100% faithful to my present wife. It has not been easy though. A couple of days ago , one of my girlfriends from the past sent me a few text and a picture. I am much better at avoiding temptation these days. I just hope she doesn't send another picture. There is only so much that I can take lol.

 

[LittleBoyBlue]

Well, my point is that it's all fun and games until the reality of the situation hits home. Maybe fun is not the best choice of words. There was excitement and a good time involved. Most people that has affairs do it because of boredom. The affair does bring excitement. For many, it is not a sexual thing as much as it the attention recieved. I joke about it, but it is a very serious matter when you start breaking up families and hurting people. I still appreciate pretty women, but I have been 100% faithful to my present wife. It has not been easy though. A couple of days ago , one of my girlfriends from the past sent me a few text and a picture. I am much better at avoiding temptation these days. I just hope she doesn't send another picture. There is only so much that I can take lol.

Lol... Kudos!



I love my wife!

 

[YosemiteSam]

I love my wife!

I love your wife too!

 

[LittleBoyBlue]

I love your wife too!

Richard

 

[jnday]

I love your wife too!

That is just wrong on so many levels.

 

[DFWJC]

Hey Stryker ...just checking to be sure you haven't been shot yet!

 

[rynochop]

Dude is double trolling, skins fan, and this soap opera thats either made up or just some hot chick he fantasizes about

 

[muck4doo]

Married women are an absolute no-no. Years ago I had a fling with a pretty young lady, and after we had spent the night together she told me she had a husband but he was spending time in prison. I got out of that as fast as I could.

 

[cowboys1981]

If its worth dying for by all means go for it. In the end the kids suffer the most in all these situations.

 

[MapleLeaf]

It's not a place you want to go. Trust what you have heard in this thread.

Of all the instances I know similar to yours I have not heard of a situation coming up roses yet.

Society and the people affected will not condone this. You have too much at risk.

I have the classic friend. He took the bait. She was unhappy and drop dead gorgeous. Their lives got ridiculously complicated trying to make this work.

He wanted more and she couldn't leave. I don't think she wanted to leave. It didn't work out well.

 

[YosemiteSam]

Married women are an absolute no-no. Years ago I had a fling with a pretty young lady, and after we had spent the night together she told me she had a husband but he was spending time in prison. I got out of that as fast as I could.

WUSS!

 

[muck4doo]

WUSS!

Wrong is wrong even if the guy is locked up.

 

[LittleBoyBlue]

Dude is double trolling, skins fan, and this soap opera thats either made up or just some hot chick he fantasizes about

Lol

 

[benson]

Put it into perspective by considering yourself the cuckold. What would you do if you found out someone was sleeping with your wife?

I feel that most men would probably take the route I would take, and I haven't enjoyed gunfire aimed in my direction since Iraq.

 

[Idgit]

Put it into perspective by considering yourself the cuckold. What would you do if you found out someone was sleeping with your wife?

I feel that most men would probably take the route I would take, and I haven't enjoyed gunfire aimed in my direction since Iraq.

Any man who intentionally take shots at my wife's happiness, my happiness, the well being of my kids, just for a roll or two on the side, he's made an enemy for life.

Whatever issues there are in my marriage, I'd address them separately with my wife to the extent that I could, but it's personal between me and the other man, and I'm doing whatever I can within the bounds of the law to make him pay a heavy price for trying to set fire to mine.

 

[YosemiteSam]

Any man who intentionally take shots at my wife's happiness, my happiness, the well being of my kids, just for a roll or two on the side, he's made an enemy for life.

Whatever issues there are in my marriage, I'd address them separately with my wife to the extent that I could, but it's personal between me and the other man, and I'm doing whatever I can within the bounds of the law to make him pay a heavy price for trying to set fire to mine.