Well that type of leadership style you mention is not working. The definition of insanity is when you keep doing the same things over and over but expecting a different results is exactly whats going on with Dallas.
We all seen this a hundred times where we know we could have or should have run the ball to win. Its been several years now. Why hasn't the coach learned his lesson? Or is he still learning?
Perhaps you could do a more intense analysis of team and directions over the past four seasons. There are reasons for specific failures.
The defining element for a leader, is in how he analyzes those failures and then initiates actions for the ponds on his own chess board. Not in the volume or language used.
Four years ago, the team was cap bankrupt...when Wade Phillips left.
Now, the team is going strongly into the next season with a cap situation again fully healthy.
Four years ago, the team had a completely dysfunctional offensive line picture.
Now, the team has one of the better lines in the league.
Four seasons ago, the final years of a complete defensive units was quickly approaching, and only took three years to fully extinguish that lingering strength.
First, the team acquired stability, for the first time in over a decade, in it's secondary. It put out top positional money to improve that very group. The acquiring of both Carr and Claiborne in the same season, was focused at directly bring up quality in the secondary. Wilcox being taken in the third round and Church being the team's defensive MVP last season, points to the rest of the sections directions to elevate. Throw in a strong contract for Orlando Scandrick...and well, a lot has been done towards improving the Dallas secondary.
Rod Marinelli's addition is aimed at fixing and finishing the transition to the 4-3 defensive scheme back in Dallas. The team is in year two of that transition. One has to almost be blind not to see a specific type of player now being taken for the defensive line. That whole group is coming up. Top players already proven in the league, are not numerous there, but strong players are in abundance now. That takes time to weave together. But the additions of Lawrence and Rolando McClain should have a strong and long lasting element to both players.
Hey, Sean Lee got hurt again...that happens. But when he returns to what is happening in the linebacker positional unit this year...this old linebacker is getting excited.
The directions of the current defensive group, is not on the shoulders of Rod Marinelli.
As to the offense, that is fully on the shoulders of Jason Garrett. How that unit, at the conclusion of this season, will determine the merit of Jason Garrett. He made that unit, specificly.
He will either ride off into the sunset on how the offense does right now, or will have a real team jelling under his leadership.
And believe me, that won't rest upon whether he pats a player on his butt, or walks up to him cursing and actually knocks him OUT!