Chocolate Lab;1552393 said:
Did all those comments seem innocuous to you?
They didn't to the show hosts...
I do agree about listening to the recap.
I didn't really want to respond to this topic, cuz of things and I knew I'd get long winded, but here it goes.
I didn't see the harm in what Crayton said. He spoke his mind. You cited the show-host's reactions - come on, man...it's the stinking LBOH show, ya know? They ask these players leading questions, baiting them into saying something that can be perceived as derogatory because they (the media) have an axe to grind. And that's fine. Crayton and other players are excited about the new coaching staff - that's great, right?
It should be.
But - and this truly is nothing against you, because you're a favorite - we get arguments like this out of them, because that's exactly what was intended. And it affected your post, because whether you consciously did it or not, you singled out one statement he made about the coaching staff and now we have a whole anti-Parcells thread. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think he said more than one statement about Parcells. After it he said his piece about the position coach, he was asked point blank "You're talking about the BIG BIG guy, aren't you" and he responded, innocently enough that it could (hypothetically, I took it) have been the big big guy, and it trickled down from the Colonel to his general, or however he put it.
Now, that sounds harmless enough on it's own. Sure, it could have been a trickle down from Bill. And so, that gets taken as gospel, threads are made paraphrasing what was said, and people get het up.
That affects me, because I loved Bill Parcells. Everything about him. I still think he's fantastic. So, if I read that Crayton's throwing staff under the bus, and suddenly the thread takes an anti-Bill turn by people who want it to go that way, I'm bound to get worked up, right? And eventually, what effect does that have on me? Well, I start to hate these whiny players.
And why?
Because I took somebody's word, and didn't take the time to listen to what was said, in it's entirety on my own - in order to find out that it just wasn't as bad as it was made out to be.
But, I don't want that, and I don't think anyone else wants that either. We're all Cowboys fans at the end of the day. And now, I'm loving Wade Phillips every bit as much as I loved Bill Parcells. He was the available candidate I wanted all along. But somehow with all these polarizing opinions on Dallas figureheads, somehow you always end up looking back instead of forward. Hopefully training camp moves us past all this, although I doubt it. All this excitement about the new coaching staff, it ought to be a good thing. We should all expect it, because new beginnings are always exciting. But, every single elated blurb about the new coaching staff seemingly MUST be accompanied by a derogatory stab at the regime behind from the wonderful DFW media. And after a few months, it seems like a gigantic waste of time to this Cowboys fan.
So no, I didn't think what he said was harmful or malicious. He had a problem with some members of management. This shouldn't be a surprise to anyone who's ever actually held a job before. I don't think we should allow it to be polarizing, either. I hope every player, from Julius Jones to Patrick Crayton to Terrence Newman - steps it up this year. Whether they're writing checks with their mouth or not, I hope they step it up BIG time. I want a super bowl, and if we're gonna get one this year, it's on the backs of these players who are happy with the new staff, and need to step up (if they're ever going to). I, and hopefully everyone else on this site, wish them all the best - and all the best to coach Parcells, too - who rescued us from being one of the all-time bad teams. It's a brand new year, and I'm starting to get excited. I need some god-damn football - and I don't intend to allow myself to be polarized anymore.