She may have been seeing both of you. When I was online dating, I found that the women there say they want a relationship, but in reality, they wanted attention, sex, and free meals.
She would have had literally ZERO time to spend with him as she was always at my place lol, but I do think it only took her a couple of weeks afterwards to start dating him
If I suddenly became single, I would be for all this
If they were up front about what they wanted, yes.If I suddenly became single, I would be for all this
That behavior is a major red flag. I would consider myself lucky to have dodged that bullet.
Lol damn that sucks. But she definitely had that dude as around as a backup
Yea, I KNOW for a fact she preferred me over all of them, but no doubt when she figured out I was not going to be husband #3 she moved on and probably hit one of them back up.
You are probably right, it hurts because before she became "damaged goods" she was probably my soulmate
I was lucky. No alimony, and we split everything ourselves, including the money from selling our house. The only lawyer we used was just to do the paperwork.
Man she either really liked and respected you or was willing to do anything to get away from you.
In our 5 year marriage, we only had 3 "shouting" fights. We just grew apart, and mutually wanted out.
I just re-read through some of my posts and wow, I was still under that witch's spell
-I am definitely not needy (quite the opposite) but I admit it did come off like that lol
You were lucky. My ex didn't work after we had our first child. That cost be big, but I am still okay with it. I am a much happier and more relaxed man now. I am pretty sure I will live longer too.
Do u think she was deserving of Half of your money? Some are and some are not I imagine!
At the time I thought not. Now I don't care.
