You don't even know what you're talking about.
Let me break it down to you:
First, you didn't mention your character. I did. And I did so because you seem to be upset that I generalized about fans who defend Hardy. I THEN said to you that you shouldn't worry about what I said if it doesn't apply to you. The fact that you DID get bothered suggests something about your character. That doesn't necessarily mean anything bad. It may be that you're extra sensitive. And maybe I'm amused by your sensitivity.
Second, there is a difference between my reaction and yours. When I initiate criticism, it is generally towards the players or the coaches because, well, this is a Cowboys forum. When you and others like you enter into discussion with me, it's usually to defend a Cowboys player. Then when you don't like what I say, you start to get personal. I don't tend to initiate personal conflicts. But, yes, I do continue what was started.
Third, I have no problem with what's being said. I DO have a problem with strawmen. Generally speaking, it's you and your cohorts who take something I say and argue points not even being contended. And then you say I don't understand what's being said?
Fourth, as for your last point, there is a saying that a man is known not only by the friends he keeps but the enemies he makes. You and a handful of guys around here generally wear their sensitivities on their sleeves. You and your cohorts feel the need to criticize people's opinions when they don't fit your Cowboys perspective, and then you get personal with your responses and insults. I've also noticed that with posters who are used to dealing with disagreements and civil discussion, I have no problems with them. We generally agree to disagree with respect and dignity.
It's just posters like you I seem to get into these run-ins with. And if I must confess to my part in this discourse, it's that I don't always back down because I believe I defend my position and defend it well.
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