The embarrassment comes from the poor management and coaching . When the same mistakes are repeated over and over and Jerry's ego is too big to change , it is nothing to be proud of. The Cowboys were the class of pro sports teams at one time. Those days are over. It is embarrassing that one man's ego prevents the Cowboys from being the most respected team again. The Cowboys have always been hated, but years ago they were respected. No longer. I would really be embarrassed if I spent money buying gear and tickets that pads Jerry's wallet. My money will not go to support him or his ego.
I get what you're saying and I don't necessarily disagree with you.
How this team is managed IS embarrassing. There's no getting around that.
I haven't bought any Cowboys gear in a decade and a half and I won't until they get things straightened out. My gear comes from the late 80's and I still take good care of it.
But I will not denounce my fandom for them. I will not placate a fan of some other teaming dogging mine- that's a "female dog" move.
I will cite my team's history and say "yes" Jerry is steering this team wrong right now, but I have no say in that matter, but I'm a Cowboy for LIFE. I will not miss games. I will support them every game.
I am a good fan. I may not support them financially any longer, but I will support them emotionally.
Don't you?