you'd think by now people would quit doing it. we see a tidbit, hear a phrase, see a fraction of a video and wa-la, we know the whole story.
now i've been on the internet since it's free roaming days where you didn't have pretty graphics and your only website editor to depend on was notepad. however, the same faults existed long before, but just harder to spot. this fault?
instant judgement.
we see something, we're told how it should make us feel, so we feel that way, and are off and running on it. it's human nature and not sure why it can take such a "revelation" to say "hey, i'll sit back and learn more about this first" instead of "THAT BCH!!!" and making everything fit the scenario laid out to start.
i've only had my car towed once. it was my own damn fault for parking where i later did in fact read NO PARKING OR YOU'LL BE TOWED. i paid the bill at 3am and got my truck. (yes, i was out clubbin seeing live bands in my younger days) and drove my date home. however, one of my best friends got an older pathfinder to go to colorado with once a year and do the loop. this has left his other car lost and alone in the apartment complex parking lot. yes it did sit for awhile but yes, he went out and started it, cleaned it off, and it never really showed to be abandoned at any time. he came out one day and it was gone. he called the police and reported it stolen. eventually it was found at a towing impound lot because they towing company said the complex put a note on the car a week ago but nothing ever was.
so who's responsible? you? the towing company? subway? (yes i've read other threads!) and if that was your car that was towed from your own place of residence and you had to pay $150 or whatever to get it back, how mad would you be and what would you say? esp if provoked?
now no idea if this happened here or not but it doesn't matter. i'm not going to take 1 towing companies word for the entire story. yes from what i have seen she was acting the spoiled brat. yes she said some mean things. but we don't know what happened before that, do we?
if you still think it's ok to judge off so little information, let me give you 2 names and see if you remember the event that so many were up in arms about.
michael irvin and erik williams.
did you get furious at these 2 when you heard the news? did you feel like a moron when you learned the truth? you'd think life would teach people to stop but they rage on in the need to judge and move on.
i don't think she should lose her job and i don't think ESPN really has any right to punish her either. if i go out and get into a word fight with someone no one will give a damn much less have it cost me my job potentially. if you really want to see justice so badly, be patient and learn the whole story.
things look so different when you do that with an open mind.