I am exactly the opposite and those 90's games against the Niners were special, I would have felt cheated if we didn't play them.
You play golf, don't you? Familiar with the term "cup hunter"? These people shade their handicaps to play against the lesser competition so they can win trophies only they are cheaters. They cheat themselves out of measuring themselves against the best because they fear on measuring up.
You are never going to know how the big dog's food tastes if you avoid going to his bowl.
Now, the question will arise are they the team to beat so the Cowboys might not be facing the best but because of the Cowboys history with him and them, I want to face him when it counts the most.
There are 5 teams in the NFC that I think are really close: AZ, TB, DAL, LAR and GB and January is a long way off. AZ is the only one of those we'll face before then and we are 0-1 against that field as of today.