What do you mean "hit on"?
Nothing I've ever said to a woman I'm interested in or not interested in could ever be construed as inappropriate.
And that's because I don't talk that way.
If anything, women later have told me they wish I had said something more.
I understand women can lie. But I also understand that men can frame their words in a way that they're not uttering inappropriate speech.
We can't let men off that easy. We've been getting away with inappropriate conversation and passing it off as "innocent" since the beginning of time.
And women are now saying, "Enough is enough!"
We're living in different times. Get used to the differences or get accused.
before you make comments like that to me... know who you are talking to . Ive been with my wife for 36 years and been married 34 years. Ive never "Hit on," nor spoken inappropriately to any woman in my entire life. It is simply not who I am.
BUT, you dont need to speak a "Certain," way for someone to accuse you of something.
Example, I coached for 20 years. I always tried to get my OF to understand that just because a player was on 2nd and was going to score didnt mean they throw it to home on a ball hit to the OF. Sometimes you simply can not get an out and the player is going to score. I exaggerated stuff when I speak in order to make my point. I would say hey, on a ball hit here and it took you this long to get to the ball, a kid in a wheel chair could score from 2nd on that play, so why are you throwing it home and allowing the other player to advance to 2nd base?
Now I had used that saying for 16 years and NEVER did any person confuse what I was saying.... until I was hired to take over a team that was really bad and my job was to make them better. Sr. players didnt get the playing time they thought they "Deserved," so they took that expression and complained that I was making fun of people with disabilities....... my father was a double amputee, I was doing no such thing. I was actually making fun of incredibly foolish softball players throwing it to a base where they had no play.
Now before someone starts popping off about how I interacted with players... Ive been to over 15 former players weddings including 2 out of state. My relationship with players was great.... they knew what my point was, but they still tried to twist it into something bad.