Honestly, I don't have a problem with fans discussing the salary CAP. Heck, I used to keep a spreadsheet showing all of the player salaries, and how they were allocated both for cash outlays, and salary CAP implications. I'm not in the habit of trying to restrict anyone else's freedom to discuss whatever they want to discuss.
What bothers me is when fans opine as if the money being used is "owned" by them, and that the Cowboys are somehow obligated to consider fan opinions. The royal "WE", as in "How much can WE afford to pay Dak?", or "Can WE afford to pay Micah, Dak and CeeDee?" Seriously, there is no "WE." There is the Cowboys team, and we fans. We fans don't own anything. And pretending we own the Cowboys is a serious delusion.
We fans can make choices on how we spend our resources. If we choose to spend time offering opinions on the Cowboys, or attending games, or watching games on TV, or buying merchandise, those are choices we make about how we want to use OUR individual resources. Tickets to game are offered at a price. Time spent watching sports, or on opinion boards are choices we make for ourselves. Offloading responsibility for choices we make with our time and resources to Jerry Jones and his management team, or to the players for being "greedy" is a kind of juvenile irresponsibility. Jerry isn't to blame for the choices you make with your entertainment and clothing budget. You can always make other choices.
I CHOOSE to continue to offer opinions. But I don't refer to the Cowboys team, which is completely separate from me, as "WE." There is ME, and them. Two separate entities. I can refer to myself as part of WE fans.
If Amazon Prime or Netflix or the Disney channel or Paramount raise their streaming service rates, you can choose to pay the higher rate, or cancel the subscription. Or you can choose "FREE" services that make their revenue via advertising, if you have the patience to sit through the ads. Or you can go outside for a walk, or go play pickleball, or read a book. There is no "WE" if Amazon raises their rates. You choose to pay for the service or find other things to do with your time.
So why do fans insist on talking about the Cowboys and other local sports teams as if they are publicly owned entities. Sports has NEVER been anything but an entertainment choice. Sports is an enticing choice because the outcomes are not 100% predictable. Years ago, I stopped watching the NBA after I perceived the games to be rigged after the Mavericks lost to the Miami Heat in 2006. I just started watching the games again this past week because the Mavericks are doing so well, and the games are more entertaining. For years, I bought 100 tickets to go see Rangers games. I took my children, family and friends. But I NEVER thought about the teams in terms of "WE."
I don't mind anyone's opinion on any topic concerning the Cowboys. I have never posted trying to control other people. But seriously, the level of delusion that some fans have, as if they are owed team success, is totally irrational. It's like going to the movies, and spending the entire time discussing how unfair it is that Tom Hanks makes millions per movie, while the gaffer on set makes just a few dollars, and the production assistant is so poorly paid. I DON'T CARE. What I care about is whether the movie is good, and if it entertains me.
What I care about with the Cowboys is whether it is a good use of my entertainment time and resources. The fact that I prefer to discuss the entertainment value to me doesn't restrict anyone else. I LIKE watching Micah, and Dak, and CeeDee play. I LIKE watching the blocking schemes. I LIKE watching DaRon Bland and Trevon Diggs intercept passes and return them for touchdowns. I LIKE watching Ka'Vontae Turpin use his speed. I LIKE watching Donovan Wilson take someone's head off when he has spectacular open field tackles. And if and when the Cowboys get new players, I'll watch them for their entertainment value - or I won't. But I haven't watched a live game in real time (except when at a group gathering) since 2013. Tevo was great. You can record a game, and watch a 3 hour broadcast in about 45 minutes or less if you fast forward through the commercials, huddles, and useless talking head babble, and still enjoy watching football without missing a play.
I used to LIKE researching college players skill sets and knowing every rookie coming into the NFL, and I still enjoy it to an extent. But other things take up my time now. I used to LIKE developing and updating my own personal power rating system. It appealed to the engineer/mathematician in me. I used to share all that on the DC.com website forum, and then on this comment board. But the endless complaints, and irrational "ownership" fetish of some of the fans here, and the increasingly small number of posters who dominate the conversations have made this forum less enjoyable. That's why I don't comment nearly as much as I used to do. It's also why I've made a couple of posts about the limit of the topics what I'm willing to join in conversation about. Inevitably, some other have accused me of trying to "control" the conversation, when all I'm doing is controlling myself, and my own conversation.
Commenting on this forum is ALSO and entertainment choice. It's become less entertaining to me over the last few years, which is why my comments have become more infrequent. I suspect that is the same experience for many others - which is why the comments have become more and more dominating by trolls and irrational fans who insist on having public arguments about insignificant things, and calling each other names. I despise the term "hater". I also despise the term "lover" when it refers to loving Jerry or any particular player. The ad hominem attacks on others bore the crap out of me. And they increasingly dominate this forum.