A lot of lousy coaches are "liked" by their players. Its prob a beneficial thing, but doesnt indicate anything really when it comes to success on the field. Lots of coaches have been let go even when players lobbied for the coach to stay. Its about respect. And a certain element of fear about the job or playing time has to be there, but to what degree is open to debate.
I don't like Belichick and I can't imagine him being a fun coach to play for. But, his players by and large respect him.
The reason being is that:
1. The Patriots win
2. He continually makes players better players.
And I don't think he nor Robert Kraft have an ounce of integrity involved with them. As we saw with Logan Mankins, just because you play great doesn't mean you will get the pay day with the Pats...even if they promise it to you.
But, there is still a respect for Belichick because players know that even if the payday doesn't come, their price tag is higher so they can go to FA and get the payday with another team. And it's not all about money...winning means a lot to every NFL player that I have ever talked to. They all have a serious disdain for losing.
So the 'fear' is that they are missing out on becoming a better player if they don't do what Belichick wants or if they get in trouble with the law which jeopardizes their standing with the team. And the 'fear' is that if they are cut, then they are very likely going to a team that isn't nearly as good.
Any dummy can cut players at the drop of a hat. That's what Chip Kelly did in Philly and players respected him LESS. Show the players that there is a benefit to the Head Coach being their HC and that's when they will start respecting him.
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