kid slaps mom

[tomson75]

I highly doubt that to be the case.

...and you'd be wrong, yet again.

I'd gladly welcome an open poll amongst this forum's members. I'd wager this doubt of yours would prove to be just another in a long line of thoughts of yours filed under "fail".

 

[CanadianCowboysFan]

CanadianCowboysFan



If you aren't able to make a distinction between strangers and family to your kids i'm not sure what to tell you.



Nor should you. If it wasn't clearly innocent and playful.



Who is talking about being violent unless it was said in jest.

With some here, one has to wonder.

Of course you can make such a distinction but to a small child, who knows what they will believe. Say someone comes up and says I'm your long lost uncle, etc

We live in a paranoid society (even though we are probably safer than we were many years ago). We instill fear in our children.

 

[ethiostar]

With some here, one has to wonder.

Of course you can make such a distinction but to a small child, who knows what they will believe. Say someone comes up and says I'm your long lost uncle, etc

We live in a paranoid society (even though we are probably safer than we were many years ago). We instill fear in our children.

I replied to what you said earlier, this....

As I wrote earlier in the thread, part of the problem is that we tell them they should not just do as adults want because that can get them into trouble. Don't go with that cop as he might be in a disguise and want to molest you, don't go with that stranger as he might molest you, don't go to the park alone, scream if someone comes near you and wants you to do something you don't want to do etc

Then of course, in their minds, it's like ok that flows with all, I don't have to do anything I don't want to do.

Now you're painting a different scenario. In the italicized part your saying that because we tell them to watch out for people they don't know, haven't meet, they will automatically conclude that they won't listen to ANY adult, including their parents or other family members they have grown to know. I think you're underestimating children's ability to learn and comprehend.

In the bolded part you're saying that what exactly? Because you tell them family is ok, they will run off with a stranger just because he or she claims to be their long lost relative? Well if you tell them to go with anybody as long as say they are a relative maybe that will be the case. It all depends how you raise your kids and what you choose to teach and instill in them.

 

[Cowboy Brian]

At your Mom?

no- but when I get angry I do yell at my brother since its usually his fault.


Example:
He "borrows" my calculator without asking, I have a math test that day and get a 20 because my teacher is a useless idiot who doesn't let people borrow calculators, I knew the martial I would've had a 100, I had to guess since I couldn't do the math in my head and only had 40 minutes.

So I came home after school and flipped out on onion, cause as that case proves everything that goes wrong is his fault.

 

[BLT]

seriously this is the problem with this culture in general now a days.. every 1 gets all this ****ing therapy and ****ing good parenting books and **** like that.. parents are soft kids are *******s...my mom or dad would have slapped me so hard i would have been uglier than pat mcquistan if i had ever laid a hand on them.. and it would be deserved.. my parents slapped me when it was time for a good slap( but no you cant do that now a days can you). Makes me sick, my parents slapped me, their parents slapped them and every 1 was fine. it makes me sick. seriously.

 

[tomson75]

seriously this is the problem with this culture in general now a days.. every 1 gets all this ****ing therapy and ****ing good parenting books and **** like that.. parents are soft kids are *******s...my mom or dad would have slapped me so hard i would have been uglier than pat mcquistan if i had ever laid a hand on them.. and it would be deserved.. my parents slapped me when it was time for a good slap( but no you cant do that now a days can you). Makes me sick, my parents slapped me, their parents slapped them and every 1 was fine. it makes me sick. seriously.

That part got me. :laugh2:

 

[ethiostar]

no- but when I get angry I do yell at my brother since its usually his fault.


Example:
He "borrows" my calculator without asking, I have a math test that day and get a 20 because my teacher is a useless idiot who doesn't let people borrow calculators, I knew the martial I would've had a 100, I had to guess since I couldn't do the math in my head and only had 40 minutes.

So I came home after school and flipped out on onion, cause as that case proves everything that goes wrong is his fault.

Was it the first time it happened? or does he do it often and you have talked to him about it before?

What type of calculations was it that you couldn't do the math in your head?
Just curious.

 

[Cowboy Brian]

Was it the first time it happened? or does he do it often and you have talked to him about it before?

What type of calculations was it that you couldn't do the math in your head?
Just curious.

It was algebraic equations I believe, this happened in November so I don't remember what topic it was lol it was extremely easy with a calculator that I much I recall, and yes Onion("real name" Jared) does idiotic stuff like this all the time, he takes water bottles out of my gym bag which I use for football aswell and I got to suffer through 100 degree weather playing football because he was thirsty and didnt want to walk to the fridge, god dam onion.

 

[CanadianCowboysFan]

...and you'd be wrong, yet again.

I'd gladly welcome an open poll amongst this forum's members. I'd wager this doubt of yours would prove to be just another in a long line of thoughts of yours filed under "fail".

so you want to asks guys how they think you look? not that there's anything wrong with that of course

Tell you what Tommy, post a pic of yourself. Anyone here can see me at facebook.com.

 

[CanadianCowboysFan]

seriously this is the problem with this culture in general now a days.. every 1 gets all this ****ing therapy and ****ing good parenting books and **** like that.. parents are soft kids are *******s...my mom or dad would have slapped me so hard i would have been uglier than pat mcquistan if i had ever laid a hand on them.. and it would be deserved.. my parents slapped me when it was time for a good slap( but no you cant do that now a days can you). Makes me sick, my parents slapped me, their parents slapped them and every 1 was fine. it makes me sick. seriously.

spanking within reason is not illegal, using objects probably is and spanking excessively on the butt or anywhere else on the body likely is or should be too

 

[ScipioCowboy]

so you want to asks guys how they think you look? not that there's anything wrong with that of course

Tell you what Tommy, post a pic of yourself. Anyone here can see me at facebook.com.

What's your Facebook name?

 

[Thatkidbob]

As I wrote earlier in the thread, part of the problem is that we tell them they should not just do as adults want because that can get them into trouble. Don't go with that cop as he might be in a disguise and want to molest you, don't go with that stranger as he might molest you, don't go to the park alone, scream if someone comes near you and wants you to do something you don't want to do etc

Then of course, in their minds, it's like ok that flows with all, I don't have to do anything I don't want to do.

No means No.

There is a fine line but we don't want a series of drones who do what they are told, that stifles creativity.

We tell our son, stand up for yourself in class, on your hockey team etc. When I was young I was way too respectful of elders even when they were completely wrong. My dad could say I ate like a bird but if I said he ate like a pig I was the bad guy.

I think they are more benefits than detriments to standing up to your parents and adults in general. You need to draw the line at violence but the violent responses many of you are making are likely just internet bravado because I highly doubt many of you were strapped (a practice that went out oh by the 1950s) or severely belted by your parents.

The child in question was wrong but it was such a set up, it is beyond pitiful.

What makes you sure?

Spankings with belts or switches (long, thin, flexible tree branches) are extremely common in the black community and in the south. I can't speak for anyone else, but I've had to go out and find a switch for my father on more than a few occasions and quite a few of my friends share similar experiences.

 

[rkell87]

As I wrote earlier in the thread, part of the problem is that we tell them they should not just do as adults want because that can get them into trouble. Don't go with that cop as he might be in a disguise and want to molest you, don't go with that stranger as he might molest you, don't go to the park alone, scream if someone comes near you and wants you to do something you don't want to do etc

Then of course, in their minds, it's like ok that flows with all, I don't have to do anything I don't want to do.

No means No.

There is a fine line but we don't want a series of drones who do what they are told, that stifles creativity.

We tell our son, stand up for yourself in class, on your hockey team etc. When I was young I was way too respectful of elders even when they were completely wrong. My dad could say I ate like a bird but if I said he ate like a pig I was the bad guy.

I think they are more benefits than detriments to standing up to your parents and adults in general. You need to draw the line at violence but the violent responses many of you are making are likely just internet bravado because I highly doubt many of you were strapped (a practice that went out oh by the 1950s) or severely belted by your parents.

The child in question was wrong but it was such a set up, it is beyond pitiful.

i promise you i got spanked with a leather belt that my pawpaw gave my mom(im 22 white male lived near houston growing up) and my babysitter had a wooden paddle and called my mom at work to tell what i did wrong, and if i acted up at my pawpaws i would have to go pick a switch. all my friends got spanked as well and just about every one of my friends that ive talked to since posting this(im in a college town and my friends come from all over) has said they got spanked, most with belts, some strictly by hand but still a common practice as my experience goes(could be a texas thing)

 

[Jon88]

I got spanked with plastic spatulas and wooden spoons. One time I put my hands behind my back to block it and my fingers bled from it. I don't remember getting whipped with a belt, but I'm told it happened.

 

[CanadianCowboysFan]

Damn, I feel sorry for you guys. It is atrocious you got beat that way. It wasn't right. That's child abuse!! It should not be happening in the 21st century.

I was barely if ever hit let alone hit with objects.

 

[Jon88]

Damn, I feel sorry for you guys. It is atrocious you got beat that way. It wasn't right. That's child abuse!! It should not be happening in the 21st century.

I was barely if ever hit let alone hit with objects.

Yep doing that to kids is pretty disgraceful. My dad is a real piece of work.

 

[tomson75]

What makes you sure?

Spankings with belts or switches (long, thin, flexible tree branches) are extremely common in the black community and in the south. I can't speak for anyone else, but I've had to go out and find a switch for my father on more than a few occasions and quite a few of my friends share similar experiences.

I'm not black, and I'm not really of southern decent or orientation....but I've picked out my own switch before. I've had a belt laid to me too. Lessons learned. It's probably not as common as it once was, obviously, but spankings and the like are still used...and are still effective if a parent makes sure the child understands why its happening.

That being said, I'd only use this type of reprimand in extreme cases...when all other methods have proved to be ineffective, or when the behavior that needs to be corrected was REALLY bad.....as is the case with the child in this video.

Damn straight he'd get a belt to his ***.

 

[rkell87]

Damn, I feel sorry for you guys. It is atrocious you got beat that way. It wasn't right. That's child abuse!! It should not be happening in the 21st century.

I was barely if ever hit let alone hit with objects.

don't be sorry, I'm not , i know damn well i was a little **** and deserved just about every whooping i got. i look back on my behavior now and am appalled, and ashamed of the way i acted. i really don't consider what i got as getting beat, nor consider it child abuse, i consider it discipline. trust me i didn't get whooped just for the hell of it or for little things.

 

[Jon88]

don't be sorry, I'm not , i know damn well i was a little **** and deserved just about every whooping i got. i look back on my behavior now and am appalled, and ashamed of the way i acted. i really don't consider what i got as getting beat, nor consider it child abuse, i consider it discipline. trust me i didn't get whooped just for the hell of it or for little things.

I'm glad you can look back and feel that way. I can't.

 

[rkell87]

I'm glad you can look back and feel that way. I can't.

im sorry man i know it wasnt overboard with me but that isnt always the case