I've been very fortunate in my life, not many regrets. I've made my share of mistakes, but have never really dwelled on them. The one thing I do regret is not being there when my mother died. The whole family was at her house the morning she passed. We knew she was not doing well, but she was having a good day. I decided to go to the weight room to check on my team even though I was on vacation and had 5 coaches assigned to be there. I left abruptly to get there in time for the 11am workout. I just waved at her from across the room and said, see you later mom. Not 10 minutes after I got to the weight room my dad called. I rushed home and saw the ambulance leaving. I followed it, but she had passed by the time it got to the hospital. Her last words were, where are the boys? My dad and three brothes were there, I was in the freaking weight room! Never forgave myself, and honestly, I was never the same coach after that.