People are so wishy-washy. They want every rule "applied", but then wax on and on about the importance of the "game in the trenches", as if that's not glorified sumo wrestling practiced by giant men at lightening speed simultaneously. Then they want physical play from either the offense or defense of their team (take your pick), but not too physical of play from their opponent, and certainly not holding, or grabbing, or bumping, or whatever (unless it's your player being physical, or two players "battling"). They then point out plays that they don't agree with (of the opponent, natch), and neglect any and all similar plays from their team. The one constant in all sports is that people are tribal and biased, and always assume the refs favor the other team.