The perception is right now that the NFL is doing what they can to police their own game, even overboard for some fans. That perception keeps people out of the "outrage mode" and taking action against the companies that support the game. That's the fear of the NFL, people can't get back at the team or the TV net but they can make the sponsor pay like they were jumping off OU when they started have problems with their players. That's the avenue people take, they start boycotts against companies and there aren't any CEO's that don't take that seriously.
Took them a while to take the last one seriously.
The problem with the modern, "outrage mode," is that it's usually media driven and reflective of their own biases, which I would argue aren't reflective of the typical fan. There's plenty of examples of a media narrative not reflecting what people actually think. People can call for a boycott all they want and if it aligns with media concerns they'll push it. If it doesn't align, the media will downplay it. Ultimately, the ratings are what actually matter.
The NFL is just super sensitive to anything that can make the golden geese stop laying eggs. Their stance is to err on the side of caution and even change the game to suit them.
That's arguable. They're, "super sensitive," to certain narratives and will use whatever argument to justify that sensitivity, money being one. But ultimately the money is in the ratings. If an advertiser decides to boycott over an issue but the ratings are unaffected, that simply allows space for another advertiser to step in.
My stance on this is simple, I don't care. I watch them play football and could care less what they do on their own time. But then again, I am kind of a change the laws to lower crime type of guy. Hell, make all the drugs legal and tax them and do the same with gambling and prostitution. But then, I do not have a business dependent on public perception and when I did run businesses in the public eye, never shared that with anyone. Because it could hurt my business, just like the NFL.
You're probably more in the mainstream than you think.
But I disagree that the public perception aspect as regards off field behavior is that important. Not to start a political debate, but I think it's illustrative of my point- doesn't the last election prove people don't care about private lives if they think you can do a good job? I find it ironic that he was chosen by people historically categorized as moralizers and opposed by the people who are supposed to not be concerned with that stuff. Even more hilarious is that the latter
to this day are still harping on his private moral failings. It's Orwellian how the people who are supposed to represent a more open minded point of view are turning into censorious busybodies hell bent on suppressing their opposition.