You’re entitled to your own opinions and thoughts but the fact you openly promote you don’t care if they’re all criminals off the field isn’t something I’d recommend for our youth to follow
My wife and I are role models to our 4 children(all adults now) not any athlete, not a movie star, not a musician. Youth do not make great or bad choices based upon how an athlete acts or behaves. Youth make good decisions because they have good role models around them(obviously Im generalizing), in their lives. IN the next 6 months, I will be attending my 13,14, and 15th weddings of former players I coached(One I havent coached since 2006, she is a school Principal by the way). You dont get asked to weddings if you didnt impact people that arent family or people you see daily. So im quite ok with how I live my life and how Ive impacted others. Next month daughter 3 graduates from UCLA. Ive done a few things right.
Reid , for someone who advertises as a caring husband , father, coach and educator your attitude come off very childish or juvenile. And only reason I call them out. But I’ve come to the conclusion you must be just toying with us or down right trolling as I’d expect someone with your place in society and education to be much more in tune with reality.
Whose reality? NFL football is not reality. There is nothing about it that is real world. Those involved make sums of money most cant imagine. Those involved live in a completely different world than the rest of us. Troll? trolls dont come to Dallas Cowboy boards for... I dont even know how long. How long has it been since the old site shut down and many of us migrated over here?
The fact you don’t see these athletes, actors or artist as real people or humans is one of the most immature perspectives I’ve ever seen. And makes me wonder if your entire persona you have expressed in this forum is totally manufactured as I can’t imagine anyone as you’ve presented could be as such.
I never said they arent real people... but they arent people in my world. I dont know them, have never spoke to them. So in my world, they are characters on TV. Thats why I dont get too upset with whatever it is they do. It is life and they hold no more special a place in my life than a movie character. As Charles Barkley once said, He is not a role model. Thats the view of them I have. The only way they impact my life is if they can play or not on Sunday.
Your strict standards for life should be the same barometer you have for everyone. Or I’d be inclined to believe you don’t actually have them . If not then your just using it to be argumentative and defend these guys cause you are a fan . Which to me is no excuse.
Defend them? I would ask you pay a little more close attention to what I say. I dont defend them. I dont think I have ever really defended any player on here. Maybe I am mistaken. Personally, I think Kelvin Joseph is a fool. Hes clearly hanging with his "Boys," that are in their 20s walking around with loaded guns. That is incredibly STUPID. There are a lot of pro athletes that are total morons. BUT, I dont worry about how they chose to live THEIR life. Like I said, as long as they can play on Sunday, thats all that matters for me. Why should I expect others to have my standards? Who the hell am I to tell others how they should live? How they should work? How they should eat and drink? What I have done has worked for me. I went into the Marine Corps right out of HS. Was married at 18, still married 34 years later, have 4 amazing daughters, wife and I are doing well in all aspects of life...... BUT, who the hell am I to tell others how they should live? My morals and standards are just that... MINE, not yours. You live how you chose to live. Thats not immature. Thats not trolling. That is just my way of getting through life. Not right, not wrong.