I’m on my 3rd one. The first hit me the first night I was out of town for a week long training class. Woke me about 1 and I didn’t know what it was; afraid it was appendicitis. Unbearable pain in my side and back. Not shooting pain, just constant, fiery pain. I was just about ready to go to the ER after 3 hours and went to the bathroom before going. Suddenly, I felt something come out with the urine and the pain lessened dramatically. I never saw the stone; it must’ve been pretty small. And honestly, I still didn’t realize it was a kidney stone. I had a bladder tumor 15 years earlier and thought it might’ve been something along those lines.
My 2nd one was about a month later. Again, woke about 1 ( don’t know what it is about the middle of the night) and this time the pain was considerably greater. This one was at home so I went to the ER about 3. I didn’t wake my wife because she has a hard time getting to sleep so I drove myself, pulling over over to puke on the way. Puked again in a wastebasket at the ER. I found out there ghat it was a stone, as was the previous. The ER doc gave me some pain meds and told me yo see my urologist.
Then, the urologist tells me that puppy was 9.5mm and wasn’t going to pass it so I had litho done to break it up. The interesting thing was he put a mesh tube up my plumbing to help protect from the jagged edges as the fragment passed. I spend 10 days peeing into a strainer, taking inventory of everything I drank and how much, and the same for the urine.I never passed a fragment so I went back to the urologist. He pulls the mesh tube out and there are fragments stuck in it. More fragments passed the first time i peed after that. I guess that tube was keeping them from passing.
The end result of the analysis of the stone and intake/output was I didn’t drink enough fluid. I made it a point after that to partake of a kidney stone elixir (a/k/a beer) routinely after that.
The stone I have right now isn’t bothering me. It was found in a scan for something else. It’s pretty small so the urologist advised to just monitor it over the next few months.
As with all medical, we’re so much more fortunate than past generations. My father-in-law had stones in both kidneys and had traditional surgery on both sides. He was cut almost all the way around.