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I know West Virginia currently also has a Diablo III epidemic.
Id hardly call people doing what they want with their own bodies an "epidemic"
Unless someone is single, without children or family, is growing their own drugs and taking their own drugs in a responsible manner (meaning at home, not going out under the influence and not over dosing)...than chances are it is not a situation where it is just some person doing something to their own bodies and not effecting/affecting others.
And so let's leave out those very very small amount of people who probably only live in fantasy island and talk about the growing number of people taking hard drugs, whether prescription or not, (not talking mary jane) that leave the people incapable of making responsible decisions for themselves, their families and communities...yeah...I would say it is growing to epidemic proportions in some areas.
It takes a toil on the community, law enforcement, medical profession, courts and families in most cases.
It is RARELY just about one guy taking something that only effects themselves.
It doesnt have to be the scenario you described to fit into the scenario I described.
If you want to hammer some drugs on friday night and go drop the kids off at grandma and grandpa's and have a will that handles your kids and possessions if you die...then have at it.
Harm is not some magical huge idea...it has to specifically be harming someone's physical self or their physical possessions.
Except you are leaving off the part of those who are bringing in the drugs, selling the drugs.
Leaving a will in case you Od is great...but you are forgetting the burden it puts on those Grandparents who only expected to have the kids for the weekend and not the rest of their lives thanks to un responsible parents who decided they want to hammer some drugs on the Friday night. Or they go out and hammer some drugs and get arrested for something. Court costs to the family. Time going through paper work if they are caught putting undo pressure on others to watch the kids.
This is not a situation where somebody just wants to go out to the bars on the weekend to blow some steam off. That I can understand if they have a designated driver and just want a few drinks to blow some steam off and relax.
What is happening, like the article is talking about...Is nothing like that at all. It is kids seeing their parents ODing out in the yard or in the house.
These are some drugs out there not what wreck havoc on people and their families this is what is being talked about in the article.
How does a will handle your kids? I mean, you can leave as much money and property behind as you want but there is no replacing parents in a kids life. JMO
We're talking about providing for their physical safety here.
My grandma tells stories of having to drag her father in off the front porch steps from him being passed out drunk, and how as they would drag him up the steps, his head would hit each step. And about how the alcohol made him very abusive physically. He couldnt hold down a job because he would always be drunk. All 7 kids shared one single mattress together that had a hole in the middle of it from the younger siblings peeing the bed at night and it rotted the mattress out.
So drugs are bad because kids are seeing their parents ODing out in the yard or in the house and we should heavily control them....but when kids see their parents ODing in the yard or in the house on alcohol its "blowing off steam".
Cognitive dissonance.
Good Grief.
You gotta be kidding me with that post...I am being serious...are you just trying to make a bizarre post to mess with me as a joke?
You just described the very thing I was talking about with some people who cannot control themselves and therefore hurt others vs your original post that it is ok for someone to just drop off the kids at grannies and go hammer some drugs being ok.
I made NO distinction that Alcohol was ok vs other Drugs being bad. That argument is only in your head.
I said if they were responsible and just blowing off some steam with a few drinks and you turned that into some bizarre argument that goes against your own argument initially to counter my argument that I never made.
WOW! and you have the nerve to say cognitive dissonance.
I dont use drugs or alcohol; never have, never will.
But I recognize the right of individuals to use both and destroy themselves with it if they want.
To complain about the drugs side but then say that instead of doing hard drugs, just use alcohol instead...thats ridiculous. They're the same things. So if one wants to be consistent, then the stance on both substances should be the same. Not different.
Mine is and I still have a problem with your short-sighted view. The vast majority of users don't just "destroy themselves", they damage a wide swath of people around them who care about them or depend on them.I dont use drugs or alcohol; never have, never will.
But I recognize the right of individuals to use both and destroy themselves with it if they want.
To complain about the drugs side but then say that instead of doing hard drugs, just use alcohol instead...thats ridiculous. They're the same things. So if one wants to be consistent, then the stance on both substances should be the same. Not different.