Tipping your waitress?

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Cythim;4559691 said:
You are the control freak in your service.

In my service, our MONEY RULES THE SERVICE, so I have a right to be in control, the server doesn't since they aren't paying us, we are paying them, DUHHH!!

Servers are at the customer's mercy if they want that good tip at the end, DUHH, that's COMMON SENSE.
 

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Springs1;4559689 said:
Then maybe you should *SPEAK UP WHEN GREETED* TO TELL THE SERVER THAT SO THEY DON'T ASK YOU!! That would be SMART since not every server will do that you know, DUHHH!!

Not everyone wants that. I sure don't want a control freak in my service.
It's preferable if they just assume that's what I want.

Like when they just assume I'm going to be staying for dessert and ask me before I'm finished with the entre what I'd like for dessert. Don't make me ask about dessert! That's your job to prompt me.

/trolling
 

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Springs1;4559694 said:
There's not *ANY* difference.




I LOVE PROVING PEOPLE WRONG WHEN THEY ARE WRONG!! It's just simply not true that servers aren't at fault for most issues, because they *ARE*. I KNOW, we have GONE THROUGH THEM!



HOW when I have PHYSICAL PROOF I am right, huh? I mean, the EXACT SITUATION I HAVE WITH PICTURES EVEN just as if you were a baby even and you cannot see that I am right, then something is wrong with *YOU* then, you don't see that, huh?

Your argument is based on anecdotal fallacy. Just because you have seen a certain outcome does not make that outcome the norm. Your physical proof and pictures are completely meaningless. You have seen one tree and assume every tree in the world must have the exact same characteristics.
 

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rkell87;4559696 said:
you obviously get bad service a lot, most people do not get bad service all that often so have you ever considered......maybe it's you? maybe there is something you do that gets you crappy service?

HOW can you blame US when we don't make the servers not write down orders after even ASKING them to, we don't make the servers not compare their written orders and the menu with what they are bringing us for obvious errors, etc.

A LOT of people get bad service. Go to complaints.com, my3cents.com, planetfeedback.com, etc. to see what I am saying is the TRUTH. If that were so true, then there wouldn't be surveys on most chain restaurant receipts now, because you know most people do the surveys if they aren't satisfied more than if they are.
 

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The30YardSlant;4559654 said:
This sort of obssessive behavior is textbook psychosis. Focusing on one thing to the point of absurdity is not normal.

i agree.



btw this is your fault you know, she told us her google key words and you were the one that that posted them lol
 

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theogt;4559702 said:
It's preferable if they just assume that's what I want.

Like when they just assume I'm going to be staying for dessert and ask me before I'm finished with the entre what I'd like for dessert. Don't make me ask about dessert! That's your job to prompt me.

NOT THE SAME SINCE YOU GET ASKED. HOW can you say that's the same? Assuming without asking is NOT the same as ASKING, because with assuming you aren't asking, are you? DUHHHH!!

Assuming is not knowing whereas asking is knowing. ANY IDIOT WOULD KNOW THIS!!
 

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Cythim;4559703 said:
Your argument is based on anecdotal fallacy. Just because you have seen a certain outcome does not make that outcome the norm. Your physical proof and pictures are completely meaningless. You have seen one tree and assume every tree in the world must have the exact same characteristics.

It's not mealiness, because we have ************EXPERIENCED************ THESE ISSUES OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!
 

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Springs1;4559697 said:
In my service, our MONEY RULES THE SERVICE, so I have a right to be in control, the server doesn't since they aren't paying us, we are paying them, DUHHH!!

Servers are at the customer's mercy if they want that good tip at the end, DUHH, that's COMMON SENSE.

You are a guest who is being provided a service for a certain fee. When you ride a train do you presume to tell the engineer how fast he can go? Certain aspects of the service are at the control of those who are serving you, you can request modified service and they can let you be pissed off and take your money anyways. If you are the one table that doesn't tip then no big deal, ******s like you eat out every day.
 

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Cythim;4559712 said:
You are a guest who is being provided a service for a certain fee. When you ride a train do you presume to tell the engineer how fast he can go? Certain aspects of the service are at the control of those who are serving you, you can request modified service and they can let you be pissed off and take your money anyways. If you are the one table that doesn't tip then no big deal, ******s like you eat out every day.

I have gotten 3 servers FIRED, WANT TO TRY ME?
 

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Springs1;4559708 said:
It's not mealiness, because we have ************EXPERIENCED************ THESE ISSUES OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!

Yet it is not the normal experience for most customers. Perhaps the issue is with your expectation and not the service being provided.
 

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Springs1;4559715 said:
I have gotten 3 servers FIRED, WANT TO TRY ME?

Oooooh a threat! If I managed a restaurant you would not be allowed in the door.
 

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Cythim;4559717 said:
Yet it is not the normal experience for most customers. Perhaps the issue is with your expectation and not the service being provided.

It is normal for most customers. As I said before take a look at those websites I listed with the complaint letters.

Expectation should be PERFECTION NO MATTER WHAT. NO ONE GOES INTO A RESTAURANT THINKING THINGS WILL GO WRONG, NO ONE, NOT EVEN YOU!!
 

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Springs1;4559708 said:
It's not mealiness, because we have ************EXPERIENCED************ THESE ISSUES OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!
Code red! Code red! She's about to blow!
 

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Springs1;4559715 said:
I have gotten 3 servers FIRED, WANT TO TRY ME?

You should have that put on a shirt and wear it proudly wherever you eat;)
 

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Cythim;4559719 said:
Oooooh a threat! If I managed a restaurant you would not be allowed in the door.

WHY? The managers AGREED with me, so that's just ridiculous. 1 STOLE and the other 2 were RUDE.
 

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Springs1;4559721 said:
It is normal for most customers. As I said before take a look at those websites I listed with the complaint letters.

Expectation should be PERFECTION NO MATTER WHAT. NO ONE GOES INTO A RESTAURANT THINKING THINGS WILL GO WRONG, NO ONE, NOT EVEN YOU!!

More anecdotal evidence showing only one side of the argument. When I go into a restaurant I almost always get the service I expect because I am not overly demanding on the staff. My orders are almost always right and the drink service is almost always exactly how I like it. This proof must mean you are absolutely wrong!
 

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Springs1;4559725 said:
WHY? The managers AGREED with me, so that's just ridiculous. 1 STOLE and the other 2 were RUDE.

Because you are obviously a ***** of a customer to deal with, I would rather save myself and my staff the headache by turning you away. There will be more customers, I don't need your money.
 

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Cythim;4559733 said:
Because you are obviously a ***** of a customer to deal with, I would rather save myself and my staff the headache by turning you away. There will be more customers, I don't need your money.

Ah, yes. The corrective power of the free market.
 
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