Here's my argument about the whole "trying hard" or "playing hard" as a reflection of Garret as a coach. Trying hard is great and is a good thing for athletes, obviously. But I am a firm believer that practice does not make perfect, practice makes permanent. So if you practice the wrong form, angle, mechanics, system etc then what you practiced will be what you permanently display. This can be applied to athletics, attitude, work ethic, coping skills, whatever.
So here's the analogy I use. If I train my German Shepherd dog (Chewie) to poop on the couch. Every day for years I encourage her to poop on the couch and when she does I clap for her and give her a treat. I go to a friend's house and bring Chewie and she poops on his couch. Who should be blamed for that. The dog? Or the person who trained her?
Is me saying, "well she's trying hard" to do the right thing going to make the poop go away? Nope.