I don't think I was being pessimistic. I was just being realistic. I was just trying to convey that we are humans and we will never be perfect. Even with that said, we should all individually strive to be perfect. We have come a long way and we should always strive to do even better. My point was that just because a story ofndisciminat
And it sounds like you were brought up right. Why someone would fear a cop varies by the individual. It could be they were dealt with brutally by a cop. It could also be that Some people have no discipline in the household and police are the first ones to discipline them. That could cause a hate/fear. The media always drives the negative stories. I heard lil Wayne tell a story about a white cop saving him after he shot himself, but I don't remember that getting near the media play that the negative stuff gets.
I don't consider myself pessimistic about it. I, too, agree that we have come along way and should always strive to be perfect. The point I was trying to convey is that we are humans, and we will never be perfect. Negativity sells in the media. There will always be negative stories (ones that drive certain agendas anyway). That does not take away from the gravity of what happens, but every case is different. It does not necessarily mean there is an epidemic, otherwise people should be discussing many "epidemics" that are not as strongly covered by many news outlets. Alot of people like to just paint with broad strokes (it's easier) instead of treating every case individually. And I don't want to put down anyone's issue that they are bringing light to, but I think alot of people do get tired of just seeing a protest and not any ideas for what they want done about it or how to go about fixing it.
And it sounds like you were brought up right. I cannot say why young black men are afraid of cops. You could get many different answers based on who you asked. It could definitely be because they, or a family member, was dealt with unjustly by an officer. It could also be that some kids (of all races) aren't properly disciplined at home, and their first time being disciplined is by a police officer. So, they view them as the bad guy. And, just like many teachers know, alot of parents put the fault on the person that reprimands their child (which allows the child to not have to feel responsible for their actions). I'm not saying this is every case, but I have seen and heard alot of these types of examples. I think that is a big issue in general (definitely not tied to one race either).
And sorry I responded late. I made some other comments, and responses, so I have been playing catch up. And I may have gotten off the original topic. Some replies are kind of blurring together. But I do think the discussion is constructive.