I wonder if any of this is on that video?
If he actually made that remark about coming back and finding her when she was working, why move him. Hell, they should have gotten a TRO. That is a threat.
Also, does that mean she was not working when she approached him? Then why did she approach him? Was she a fan and he, being Irvin, just assumed she was fair game?
None of this explains why the lawyer would risk pissing the judge off by ignoring his order to release the "evidence". Not a smart thing to do.
However, this seems to be changing to a they said/they said but that moving towards her and her retreating better show up on that video and it would be nice to see him face slap himself 3 times and repeat "there's no place like home".