I most assuredly DO understand the definitions of "heroic" AND "hero" — there are several. I just don't feel it necessary to denounce another's comment to prove how right I am when the meaning was not so much about the extreme definition(s) as it was about being complimentary.
He wasn't saying Christian Bale's visitation was on par with folks who have unselfishly and unflinchingly given their lives for others. I may choose to make that necessary distinction in a debate about those specific kinds of heroes and heroic efforts, but wouldn't on a Cowboys Fansite where general goodwill & noble gestures were the clear theme of the OP and thread.
BTW... first Google response to the search query, "hero definition"...
he·ro/ˈhi(ərō/
Noun:
- A person, typically a man, who is admired for courage or noble qualities.
- The chief male character in a book, play, or movie, who is typically identified with good qualities
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I think Christian Bale exhibited good and noble qualities in what he did.
I think the folks he visited would agree.