23 here. 19 as an NCO. I know that you were trained and went to schools as well, to develop leadership qualities.
I never assumed anything concerning your past. Assume makes an arse out of you and me as that goes down. Oh, and there is management as all the needs of your men as well as tactical advantages have to be managed.
Be where you are supposed to be; when you are supposed to be there; with what you are supposed to have. The same applies to coaching a football team.
In armed conflicts, if you were early, late, or not where you were supposed to be...someone paid the price. Motivation!
By the way, you think that Dak deserves the blame for not accomplishing Mission? I didn't stutter on the leadership requirement for all team effectiveness...