DMN Blog: Practice attendance -- Roy's here, Ellis isn't

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abersonc;2098256 said:
How many times do I need to post this quote from Mosley's article?

"I talked to two players who were shocked Williams didn't show up -- especially in light of recent events. One player, a starter on defense, said that most players assume that "voluntary" OTAs will occur in mid- to late May and plan their schedules accordingly. They want to be supportive of Williams, but he's not making it easy."

It is pretty clear that players know roughly when this stuff is going to be scheduled.

I could care less about Roy doing it "my way" -- what I care about is him doing it the way his TEAMMATES want. And that quote pretty much shows that they think he needed to be there.

you can stop now because it's not relevant. more side noise to distract and i'm not going there. it's NOt clear it was TO be then or romo would NOT have scheduled a major golf event. right?

so it would seem that:
1. roy knew they could be in mid to late may.
2. roy went to the front office and said "hey, nothing set yet, can i take this week to go hang w/fam on a reunion cruise" and was told yes.
3. he went.
4. you're mad cause he scheduled this during a "known" event.

now.
a. it wasn't known or romo would not have scheduled something also
b. you're mad at roy for NOT canceling then, NOT scheduling something to begin with or you'd be mad at romo too
c. his boss cleared it
d. fans still make crap up and hope it sticks for their own purposes.

like i said - you're far too rigid in your "hardline" here. after all who was it that said "death or birth" then had to recant that when your own life showed a greater leeway?

hint - it was the same person who backed out and said it was silly to hold it to such rigid standards. even though you said them.

with some people, no matter what others do it's wrong. that's crap to me but you have at it.
 

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iceberg;2098279 said:
you can stop now because it's not relevant. more side noise to distract and i'm not going there. it's NOt clear it was TO be then or romo would NOT have scheduled a major golf event. right?

so it would seem that:
1. roy knew they could be in mid to late may.
2. roy went to the front office and said "hey, nothing set yet, can i take this week to go hang w/fam on a reunion cruise" and was told yes.
3. he went.
4. you're mad cause he schedule now.

You are just making crap up now. There is no way that you know any of that happened in that manner. Again, see what his teammates said. Perhaps he should have cleared it with those guys b/c ultimately their opinion of his is what really matters.


iceberg;2098279 said:
a. it wasn't known or romo would not have scheduled something also
b. you're mad at roy for NOT canceling then, NOT scheduling something to begin with or you'd be mad at romo too
c. his boss cleared it
d. fans still make crap up and hope it sticks for their own purposes.

What the hell are you talking about? Romo canceled his golf date when he saw a conflict. Romo saw that he needed to be somewhere else. He did the right thing and was at the OTA. The HUGE difference is that they both scheduled things they could get out of. One got out of the commitment the other didn't.


iceberg;2098279 said:
like i said - you're far too rigid in your "hardline" here. after all who was it that said "death or birth" then had to recant that when your own life showed a greater leeway?

As usual, you fail to read the context of the post. I was talking about Ellis' absence -- we knew that a Ellis was not hurt so that excuse is out the window we also know that Ellis is under contract so that excuse was not relevant. Given the ELLIS clearly did not have those excuses available too him I noted that all the was left FOR ELLIS was life or death excuses.

And as I noted I've missed work b/c I was sick. Where exactly do you get greater leeway? Players get injured, regular folks get sick. The only other times I noted I missed "work" were when work commitments required that I be in two places as once -- so I didn't miss work in those situations - I was unable to fulfill one aspect of my job because I was fulfilling another.


iceberg;2098279 said:
hint - it was the same person who backed out and said it was silly to hold it to such rigid standards. even though you said them.

Backed out? No, you just don't pay close enough attention to posts.


iceberg;2098279 said:
with some people, no matter what others do it's wrong. that's crap to me but you have at it.

Seems pretty clear to me that you are the rigid one here -- any peep of anti-Roy talk and you are jump to his rescue.
 

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abersonc;2098296 said:
You are just making crap up now. There is no way that you know any of that happened in that manner.

i stopped reading here cause you and i are in the same boat. so when it comes to real facts, sure. i'm pretty ignorant of them WHICH IS WHY I don't get so high horse on someone when i DO NOT KNOW the facts.

i can see now it's acceptable for you to ASSUME it was easy for roy to change plans but i can't assume it wasn't.

birth or death sure expanded a whole lot since that stupid statement, didn't it?
 

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iceberg;2098305 said:
birth or death sure expanded a whole lot since that stupid statement, didn't it?

only if you read it completely out of the context it was written. of course, that's your shtick.
 

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abersonc;2098322 said:
only if you read it completely out of the context it was written. of course, that's your shtick.

but you're free to take what a reporter says in only YOUR context.

it's your way just as well dude. i ain't the only bad man here.
 

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abersonc;2098322 said:
only if you read it completely out of the context it was written. of course, that's your shtick.
There's not a whole lot of "context" to read here...
abersonc said:
Birth or death are the only excuses I'm taking.

abersonc;2098256 said:
How many times do I need to post this quote from Mosley's article?

"I talked to two players who were shocked Williams didn't show up -- especially in light of recent events. One player, a starter on defense, said that most players assume that "voluntary" OTAs will occur in mid- to late May and plan their schedules accordingly. They want to be supportive of Williams, but he's not making it easy."
That's all paraphrased by Mosley, no direct quotes, no attribution as to who said it. The only person you're quoting is Mosley.

And Mosley works for ESPN now. He's being paid to be sensationalistic.
 

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peplaw06;2098379 said:
There's not a whole lot of "context" to read here...


That's all paraphrased by Mosley, no direct quotes, no attribution as to who said it. The only person you're quoting is Mosley.

And Mosley works for ESPN now. He's being paid to be sensationalistic.

he's in backtrack mode cause he got all ultimatum and it didn't fly.
 

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peplaw06;2098379 said:
There's not a whole lot of "context" to read here...

The CONTEXT is that we were talking about Ellis - try to follow along peps
 

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iceberg;2098381 said:
he's in backtrack mode cause he got all ultimatum and it didn't fly.

you show me where I said absolutely that for ANY player that is the only excuse I would accept.

read the freaking thread.

Here is what I responded to

sago1;2096858 said:
Has anybody thought that Ellis might have an excused absence from the coaching staff for family reasons? You'd feel stupid if his wife had a baby last night or someone in his family is seriously ill or died. Not saying that's the case but let's just not overreact.

Clearly I'm talking about Ellis and indicating that those were the situations that I would accept an excuse from regarding ELLIS since as I noted before he wasn't injured and was presently under contract.
 

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abersonc;2098423 said:
you show me where I said absolutely that for ANY player that is the only excuse I would accept.

read the freaking thread.

Here is what I responded to

Clearly I'm talking about Ellis and indicating that those were the situations that I would accept an excuse from regarding ELLIS since as I noted before he wasn't injured and was presently under contract.

clearly you said birth/death - only reasons.

now you don't want to go by those strict standards so you're offering additional reasons.

so since we've established other reasons can be acceptable, and we've established neither you nor i know WHY roy didn't cancel, YOU are making crap up by ASSUMING roy COULD HAVE easily have done so but didn't.

you keep breaking your own rules and it's ok. we try to follow along with your rules, broken or otherwise, and it's not.

like i said, your way or nothing.
 

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iceberg;2098439 said:
clearly you said birth/death - only reasons.

now you don't want to go by those strict standards so you're offering additional reasons.

so since we've established other reasons can be acceptable, and we've established neither you nor i know WHY roy didn't cancel, YOU are making crap up by ASSUMING roy COULD HAVE easily have done so but didn't.

you keep breaking your own rules and it's ok. we try to follow along with your rules, broken or otherwise, and it's not.

like i said, your way or nothing.

What do you not understand about CONTEXT? Do you seriously think this is a legitimate way to have a discussion? You pick a sentence that was part of a discussion and simply interpret it as is without any reference to what it was related to? It was about Ellis and I explained the context to you since you were too lazy to read the actual thread.

I responded to a specific post about Ellis - pertaining to his situation. If you refuse to understand that was what I was talking about then that is on your obstinate head, not mine.
 

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abersonc;2098459 said:
What do you not understand about CONTEXT? Do you seriously think this is a legitimate way to have a discussion? You pick a sentence that was part of a discussion and simply interpret it as is without any reference to what it was related to? It was about Ellis and I explained the context to you since you were too lazy to read the actual thread.

I responded to a specific post about Ellis - pertaining to his situation. If you refuse to understand that was what I was talking about then that is on your obstinate head, not mine.

you mean like you pick an event in roys life and make it what you want it to be w/o any insider evidence or actual facts at hand?

you want leeway and "context" around your posts/thoughts/life.

you won't give it.

wild.
 

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iceberg;2098463 said:
you mean like you pick an event in roys life and make it what you want it to be w/o any insider evidence or actual facts at hand?

you want leeway and "context" around your posts/thoughts/life.

you won't give it.

wild.

I want players on this team to have their ***** at every OTA. Period. Point Blank.

And I want posters on this board to at least read the thread before jumping in.

As I noted several times before, Roy has several months free and clear of football responsibilities. Take a vacation then.

Now why don't you run along and defend Greg Ellis' absence. I'd love to hear your "spin" on that.
 

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abersonc;2098470 said:
I want players on this team to have their ***** at every OTA. Period. Point Blank.

And I want posters on this board to at least read the thread before jumping in.

As I noted several times before, Roy has several months free and clear of football responsibilities. Take a vacation then.

Now why don't you run along and defend Greg Ellis' absence. I'd love to hear your "spin" on that.

so birth/death is no longer 2 viable options? you were just spouting off? so now even the rules you set are subject to change? wow. pretty lenient of you to your views. wish you'd allow others that.

now, roy. roy went with his family. you assume every other option for roy worked for his entire family. this wasn't just about roy, you're just making it that. maybe it could have been rescheduled. maybe not. i DO NOT KNOW. do you? no. but you sure do act as if you do. maybe they tried to reschedule and this was best for the overall FAMILY, not just roy. roy knew it could be an issue, so he gets permission. that much i can see. how you can see all the circumstances around it to KNOW roy could so easily have BEEN THERE is simply beyond my simple logic.

me - my panties don't get bunched up for a player missing a walk through practice 3+ months before the 1st game is played. i got plenty of time to worry about it later when it matters. i don't care roy missed, so i don't care ellis missed. i don't think either will find a "focus" that won't be lost in the next 3 months anyway.

continue your rage. it fits you well.
 

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iceberg;2098494 said:
so birth/death is no longer 2 viable options? you were just spouting off? so now even the rules you set are subject to change? wow. pretty lenient of you to your views. wish you'd allow others that.

Holy crap. Read my previous posts. I was talking about Ellis. It was clear that he was under contract and not injured.

You aren't this thick.

iceberg;2098494 said:
now, roy. roy went with his family. you assume every other option for roy worked for his entire family. this wasn't just about roy, you're just making it that. maybe it could have been rescheduled. maybe not. i DO NOT KNOW. do you? no. but you sure do act as if you do. maybe they tried to reschedule and this was best for the overall FAMILY, not just roy. roy knew it could be an issue, so he gets permission. that much i can see. how you can see all the circumstances around it to KNOW roy could so easily have BEEN THERE is simply beyond my simple logic.

I've said it before. You've got 4 months or more free and clear. Schedule it then. Otherwise it needs to be "sorry folks, I should be at work. enjoy the trip."

iceberg;2098494 said:
me - my panties don't get bunched up for a player missing a walk through practice 3+ months before the 1st game is played. i got plenty of time to worry about it later when it matters. i don't care roy missed, so i don't care ellis missed. i don't think either will find a "focus" that won't be lost in the next 3 months anyway.

continue your rage. it fits you well.

As I've said before -- his teammates have been noted to care -- and if you don't think that is important then you are far less intelligent then I've given you credit for
 

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abersonc;2098503 said:
Holy crap. Read my previous posts. I was talking about Ellis. It was clear that he was under contract and not injured.

You aren't this thick.

I've said it before. You've got 4 months or more free and clear. Schedule it then. Otherwise it needs to be "sorry folks, I should be at work. enjoy the trip."

As I've said before -- his teammates have been noted to care -- and if you don't think that is important then you are far less intelligent then I've given you credit for

so am i not this thick or am i far less intelligent than you give me credit for? and you wonder why people are not clear on what you mean.

you put your rules of life on roy. don't work that way. i'd never tell you "this is how i run my life so you must too". far too one sided for me. maybe this is the only time he could go, and he did get clearance. you tend to forget that in your rage-parade.

and i only know what teammates say through the media. forgive me if i don't view the media as the end all be all of trust and honesty. even when it would serve my cause.

im done dude. you wanna keep going, PM me.
 
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