Doomsday101;1152109 said:
I agree and have said at this point I would not cut TO or release him based on things he has done in Dallas or the drop balls. I do expect commitment from these players. No doubt I tend to be hardnosed when it comes to the game of football it was just the way I was taught to play the game and the era I grew up in. I tend to get tired of people acceptance of bad behavior and some how justifying it. I understand players are different today but it is because it has been allowed and tolerated. For the money they are getting paid in my opinion you do what you’re told when you’re told but then that is just me.
I agree completely - I grew up playing football and other sports and was taught the same kind of respect for coaches and teammates you were.
I have a son and have coached various youth sports for a number of years, and I can tell you it isn't just a problem at the pro level.
First, kids grow up with so many more diversions these days. Sports and physical activity were the primary source of intertainment for my generation - we didn't have cable TV, video games, chain/theme restaraunts and kid oriented buisnesses, huge malls, computers ....... as a whole kids today don't develop the same love and respect for games - they aren't as much of a focus.
Second, kids aren't taught the same kind of respect at home. Some has to do with there being fewer 2 parent families these days, or step-parents being in the picture, but in general kids are allowed to set their own terms too often. As much as I don't like feeling old when a kid calls me "Mr.", I still expect it. I teach my kids to show that kind of respect, but not all parents do.
Third, kids EXPECT things - like an equal share of playing time in youth sports or in any other activity. By expecting things I don't mean they know they can earn it, I mean they expect it to be given to them. They think that all they have to do is show up and they should be allowed to do whatever they want, play whatever position they want, dictate playing time, etc ...... and too many parents encourage that thinking. It's kind of a societal thing - schools are discouraging competition these days as well.
Obviously these things don't apply to all kids, but they do to a dramatically larger portion of kids today.
Here's the kicker. When I was a kid I respected coaches and busted my butt for one simple reason - I knew they could plant my butt on the bench if I didn't show something. That just doesn't seem to motivate kids these days.