GrammaJan
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Lax is exactly where I am in the PT. I’d rather take a nap. I definitely need the regimented follow through with a Personal Terrorist to keep me going.We are experiencing similar weather in MT, Jan. Later this week, however, the temperatures are expected to dip into the single digits.
Glad you can PT at home... Hope to have a lot more commitment than I did when I injured my knee. Without the (sadistic) physio driving me, I really become quite lax.
So, here is the real reason I replied to your post - take the high road with your ex as it relates to the grandkids.
Following my son's divorce, his ex was awarded sole custody of their two toddlers and she immediately cut off all communication with our grandkids. I spent 2 years in and out of court trying to secure grandparent rights. My ex refused to join in the lawsuit as she had a "great relationship" with the ex daughter-in-law. Soon after I was awarded visitation and part custody, my ex now wanted to "share" visitation with the kids. I took the high road and agreed. Within a year, my ex fundamentally stopped making the effort of seeing the grandkids. Karma..
As for the ex, I’m fine as long as he doesn’t know where I live... otherwise he’d be over here bugging me all the time. He’s mad at my daughter for moving (hello...the Navy said “move” so you move) and he blames her for the divorce. All the same, much like the multitude of items that caused the divorce (which I will not mention), he refuses to accept responsibility for his role in the marital breakdown and his lack of any relationship with his children or grandchildren. He exists in a very angry and lonely world that I can’t be part of. I got out and am alive and happier being alone than I ever was being depressed with him and wanting to end it all. That’s not to say I won’t be civil if we are at a family function or something. I do take that high road, I just never want him getting the impression I’d come back to him. Never happen.