Maybe we just understand the word "thug" to mean something different but a guy just out to party and have a good time and doesn't like to adhere to the rules of accepted behavior for these athletes isn't criminal to me. Thugs are criminals. And there's a question about what happened between the two of them and I think things could have gotten out of hand with liquor and drugs but he's not in a gang or holding up C stores.
These guys get treated like their poop doesn't stink, they're like gods to some people so they live in a different world than we do and kid like Elliott, a football stud since he was 15, he's always gotten that treatment. That is our society.
Hell, I went to school with guys like Elliott, party guys, guys that having a good time is all that matters but they weren't thugs. In fact, I liked their lifestyle so much, I joined in. My only problem with him is can he be dependable? He does just enough to make me think there's another shoe out there ready to drop.
And I wonder if there's something really mentally irregular with him. How many guys go off to college on a scholarship and party their butts off? A lot, hell, that's part of the plan. But for his father to have to move to where he is to try and be a stabilizing factor was a new one for me. And if it's true that was the recommendation of his HC, that's even weirder. I partied my *** off in college but my Dad just said "come home, I'm done", him moving and watching over me was never an option. And I gotta say, he would have cut in on my extracurricular activities if he had moved.
Ya know, there's a tell about how he processes information. Jumping into that Salvation Army barrel was premeditated, he told Dak he was going to do it if he scored. Dak warned him he could catch a fine and the team catch a penalty but he was going to anyway. That's not something thug does, that's something a big kid does. And once he's in it, he acts like a kid. But then he did something only a man would do, not a thug, he gave the Salvation Army what the fine would have been. He paid for that young man's funeral last week. This is not thug behavior.