Me too.
I have not taken a side on this because I absolutely do not know which side to take.
I do know this. I hate the ones who secksually assault others, but just as much I hate the ones who falsely accuse others. Both of these types are scum of the earth, and my hate for both is very equal.
I do not pretend to know what happened, so it's the wait game.
This wasn't assault but I do think the incidents of real assault far outweigh falsely accused assaults.
For years, Cosby and Weinstein assaulted women and they remained silent for one main reason, they didn't think they would be believed. There are more women like that then we would want believe exist.
Years ago, my wife's cousin went to the minister in our church for some counseling while going through a divorce. Not only did he end up coming onto her, he forcibly kissed her. She only told this to my wife and myself because he was the preacher and she was a woman about to be divorced, who would believe her?
Now, my wife's cousin had a little bit of a past and was known to be a party girl so being a guy, I wasn't sure whether to believe her or not. I mean this guy was upstanding and I was in that large group of people that didn't want to believe it. Much like my Catholic friends that have had to deal with that nightmare.
Well, a year later he goes a little too far and gets caught and then several women came forward in support of this one woman. The housekeeper of the church came forward and testified this had been going on for a long time.
I had not believed her because of her past but I could not escape that just as I don't with Irvin. And I just haven't seen many people really change in my lifetime. Even the ones that had me fooled resorted back to their old behavior.