This hit me hard. I have 3 daughters and 3 granddaughters. I can not fathom losing my spouse or anyone of my kids. I always tell the girls they can do and be anything they want to be and always referenced role models like Kobe's girls. As parents you want to protect your family from everything, that's our job, but sometimes the unexpected happens and were rendered helpless, that is what hurts the most.
I pray for the family now that they continue in their father and sisters path, living their lives with happiness, appreciation and humility just like their father would have wanted them to.
All of us need to remember how fleeting life is, we are promised nothing, we are all living on borrowed time. Be good, be kind and help your fellow man, simple things that we all can do.