A closed criminal investigation hasn't swayed the NFL's decision to punish; why would a closed civil matter make any difference? The video would have been seen just the same so it's not like preempting NFL involvement was ever a possibility. Filing right away wouldn't have resulted in a settlement, and it certainly wouldn't have deterred NFL involvement. Think about the dynamic you have proposed here.
- NFL involvement is bad, presumably because it has consequences
- Payoffs or settlements can preempt NFL involvement
- Players/owners seek to avoid NFL consequences, and will pay people off in order to do so
In short: the NFL is corrupt enough to let punishable acts slide if hush money is paid, while also being so corrupt that it scares players/owners into paying out as quickly as possible.
How is this not the Mafia?
Of course there isn't. The events that unfolded don't warrant anything but being accused of money-grabbing. Had Zeke done anything less, he would have been farting in the guard's general direction. To be clear, Zeke is an idiot and shouldn't have been in that situation. I yearn for the start of the season, if only because it means Zeke has fewer opportunities to make stupid decisions. It really sucks that we have to watch him live out his prime years as a remedial adult. While I likely wouldn't have had any sympathy for Zeke if he were suspended solely on account of being an idiot, I refused to sympathize with someone who opportunistically seeks compensation because their ego took a hit.