I teach elementary Physed. A lot of you on here act like they do. We're all mad about this season. I had us in the SB, but it doesn't give you the right to act like your 5. Some of you I swear are happy were losing just so you can say "I told you so." No you really didn't. We're 5-1 with Romo and Dez and I can't be convinced otherwise. I pray were still in the fight when he comes back cause I'll never count that man out. Everyone's gonna be right/wrong about things, myself and you included, doesn't mean we gotta crucify eachother. If you've given up on the season there's two places for you draft and rant zone. Things are very grim, but I believe and im not about to make people feel like crap for having some faith
The thing about having a family board, is it means we have teenagers with posting privileges here. Add the anonymity of the internet, and a four game losing streak, stir, and you get some not-great behavior.
I know from moderating it for a while now, it's mostly just bad when the team is losing. Sure, we have a small contingent of posters who just like to try to make the community worse, but for the most part we've turned those monsters into pets at this point. As long as they get their walk every now and then, they're pretty much content.
I agree with you that I don't understand the psychology of trying to bring fans down who just enjoy watching the Cowboys play football. When things suck, they suck. Tearing down people who want to point out that some parts suck less than others just seems petty. Then again, when you care about something a lot and aren't getting your way about it, everybody handles that differently.
Personally, I start immediately trying to diagnose the solution. The majority of the people here are the same way. A smaller group prefers to trash the room before they can calm down enough to start talking solutions, but by Wednesday afternoon, they've mostly come around, too. Only the trolls and the fans of other teams (who are welcome here, too) typically harbor ill-will longer than that, though, like with everything, there are exceptions to every rule. The best thing to do with that last group, as far as I'm concerned, is to simply let them know you don't respect the behavior, but to otherwise just not take the bait. They eventually stop, get smarter, or work their way through the digestive tract and out the cat-flap, so to speak.