ABQCOWBOY
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Lol! Me too, fortunately more on the winning side. Those losses were tough, you feel so helpless. I would get in my coaches ear and tell them to keep coaching. Kids came of the field and we'd keep coaching. If they saw us quit, they would quit. I hate quitters and tanking.
Yeah, when I was a kid, those kinds of games where you lose big, you would always hear it after the game from the Coaching Staff but honestly, no matter the tone taken by the Staff, I always felt like it didn't matter. I always felt like we didn't get it done and it would stick with me forever it seemed. To be honest, that was a short falling on my behalf. I would hold on to those games longer then I should have probably. I felt like it would never be worse then that, until that is, I became a Coach. When that happened, it felt 10 times worse then it did when I was a player. I felt like I let down those kids and truth is, in those kinds of games, we did. Obviously, you can lose to better talent no matter how well you Coach but when kids get beat down, it sticks with you way worse cause they look to you and what can you say? I mean, as a player I felt like I didn't do all I could in those kinds of games but when you become a Coach and you know your kids are doing all they can, you can't help but feel like you didn't do all you could. At least, that's the way I always felt.
But you still learn something from that. It's part of life because aside from the personal stake you have in Ws and Ls, it's really the kids that you have to look in the eyes after those games. That's pretty tough to me. Why does anybody Coach?