So what’s the key to ying and yang relationaships? I’m too old to deal with the drama. In my experience, you don’t get the drama until it’s too late. What are some red flags from both men and women’s perspectives?
In my life, all I can say is it's about a proper fit in many ways.
I went through it all: Gorgeous, but vapid... Not-so-gorgeous, but obsequious... Strong and fierce and submissive.
I found a woman that also found me at the exactly correct same time. If we would have met 10 years earlier? Never would have worked... But we hit it when it was right.
Both at the same maturity level, Intellectual, but not pretentious... learned lessons from previous relationships and took those lessons to heart. Both of us.
Not saying age is the thing, but maturity and fit is.
She's strong where I'm not and weak where I'm strong and we just work well together without animosity of each other's weaknesses.
It helps that we are still crazy sexually attracted to each other after almost 10 years, but that attraction comes with a feeling of respect of who we are to each other also.
My respect for the woman is sexually arousing. Same for her. And she's hot as the Sun...
... I'm okay looking.
Lol... she'd give me Ojo me for that.
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