Stern did the Lakers a favor by nixing that trade, but the Lakers screwed it up by trading away Odom and Fisher.
They should have acquired Goran Dragic as a backup or starter with Fisher playing the backup role, and played through with Odom as their 6th man. Being able to go big with Kobe, Artest, Odom, Gasol, and Bynum on the floor down the stretch would completely outmatch OKC's roster, as well as match up very favorably against the Spurs...but they're pretty content on turning into the Western Conference version of the Cleveland Cavaliers. Length wins in the playoffs when the talent is close, and experience even moreso than that. Plus, Odom had a habit of playing big in the playoffs whereas Gasol, other than the year that the Lakers beat the Magic, has a habit of disappearing.
Their only saving grace is if they are able to somehow get Dwight Howard and Deron Williams, and they won't be able to get both. I would say to bring back Lamar Odom after this year too, but he'll probably be damned before he re-signs with the Lakers after the way they did him. I could see him playing for the Clips next year...but there's no guarantee that Chris Paul even signs an extension with the Clippers, and their front office has a penchant for blowing up the team over and over again.
If I were a die hard Lakers fan I'd be pretty upset with what they've done to the team. They didn't want to part with Bynum, when Orlando would've traded Bynum for Howard straight up. Just stupid.
And this has nothing to do with Mike Brown as a coach - he's a really good coach, especially defensively. Offensively the Lakers have also had no problem scoring points and moving the basketball. The fact of this series is simply that the Lakers talent is just thin. The only people on that roster that are mentally tough right now are Kobe and Artest.