You make well thought out and in depth posts about our team man, but I just cant see it from the angle you provide here.
First, I think its kinda obvious McCarthy doesn't possess the personality/balls to approach Jerry in the way you described.
When all of his previous Cowboy playoff teams have appeared unprepared to play at a high playoff level, how would he be in a position to demand anything.
I see him as just the opposite and should be thankful Jerry didn't fire him.
He's just padding his retirement portfolio cashing them head coach checks.
Dak is just as equally inept if not more than McCheese when it comes to playoff performance.
I see him in no position to be making demands of anything.
If both were better at their individual jobs, we should be playing in the NFCCG now, and that is to include all the current personnel. We are ex tremely lacking at all 3 positions of the NFL success triangle. GM, HC AND QB.
Not just GM.
That's my opinion.