ABQCOWBOY
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ABQ, sorry for your friend's loss as I lost that battle over 7 years ago and it still hurts. I was offered some very good advice that I did not take and wish I had, grief counseling. Whether individual or group it is beneficial because at a time like that we think we are stronger, we can handle it by ourselves. Others feel for us but they do not really know the pain as others going through it at that time do.
I had it for free, all I had to do was show up but I told myself 'who in the hell wants to be around other people going through this? How is that going to help me cope and get through this'? Just as I didn't share with my fellow forum members when I was going through my own version of hell, I pulled within and went to a very dark place instead.
My best friend in PA wife's cancer that they thought they'd beaten has shown up in other part's of her body. That damned disease is the real monster as it toys with us.
Thank you for the advice Coach. Yeah, same here. Robin beat cancer 7 years prior and it came back.
It's very sad indeed.