Couple of thoughts about all this Jerry Jones court drama:
- It appears Jerry considers “winning” in this situation to be getting a judge to rule that his (apparent) biological daughter and baby mama have violated a non-disclosure agreement signed in 1998 by the mother.
- How sad and telling is it that JJ won’t even acknowledge he is this young lady’s father. I understand that all this would potentially open up his fortune to another heir. But it seems completely disgusting to me that he considers “winning” in court holding this NDA over these people and citing “the millions” he’s given for this girl’s upbringing to be all he owes that daughter. He apparently chooses not make any of this right.
Does being a father to JJ boil down to the details of a written agreement and cash? Is that all the character he has ? Money? Obviously he made a bad mistake in the 90s with a woman and could have done the right thing by owning up to it and acknowledging his daughter. Maybe even made her part of his legacy.
I don’t fault a man for the mistakes he owns up to and takes responsibility for. In this case we have a billionaire who seems to see his responsibility to only be monetary. I find that pretty sad.
You are using your morals and placing them on others. I grew up with my real father not in my life. He was until about 4, then not after that. So I view things from my perspective, not yours. Lets assume my facts correct, just for the sake of argument. Jerry and mama are at some casual event and they start flirting with each other. They eventually have sex a few times, I wont even call it an affair, they hook up , have sex and thats it. No other relationship. 2 months goes by and Jerry is informed his sex toy got pregnant. He asks her to have an abortion and she refuses. At that time Jerry tells her he has n desire to have another child and if she does go through with it, he will in no way be involved in this child's life.
They make the financial agreement, that Jerry followed through on. Giving them millions of dollars, setting up several cash payments, a car, vacations, college, and who knows what else.
Now Jerry has done exactly what he said he would do. He also has the right to not be involved. How can I say that? Because my morals are different than yours. The woman should not have all the power in this scenario, yet they do. Being a biological father doesnt make you a father. Remember, I have experience with this which is why I have the views I have. So when Jerry said he wouldnt be involved in her life, he meant it. He paid what he agreed, and just because the other side wants things to be differently doesnt mean he is required to do so. It isnt that complicated. While you may view him as scum for following through with what he said, I do not.