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I hear you, and fully endorse the fundamental premise that sports is only a consumer entertainment option among many, many options. But some consumers, if not many, so embrace this form of entertainment that they have made it a quasi-religion for themselves more so than a consumer choice. To my mind, there is a thin line from being an enthusiast fan and being a religious fan, but it is an important line that has consequences to one's mental health, for real.The NFL is just entertainment. Any fan that "worries" about the team is wasting emotional energy. It is certainly interesting to talk about, but after almost 30 years of disappointment, the Cowboys don't merit the emotional energy needed to "worry" about any position. Just enjoy the games, root for the team, and let it go during the offseason - like we used to do back before social media, and the internet gave us the resources to do exhaustive research on prospects, and spend time readying every other fan's "expert" opinion.
I don't know anyone for being interested or being a fan of the team. But it is much more enjoyable to simply assume (I know, I know) that the Cowboys are doing the best they can, and hope for improvement. That way, you can stay positive about the team, and not allow it to drag you down when they fall short - either in off-season maneuvering, or during the games in the Fall and Winter.
The enthusiast fan can still get wrapped up in the drama, not unlike getting wrapped up in the drama of a good movie. But s/he holds back enough of his/her intensity of attention such that, if the entertainment evolves into something that appears to hold little potential to result in positive feelings overall, s/he can withdraw and find some other way to invest his/her time in some other recreational pursuit.
I'll give you an example. Baseball stopped being entertaining to me b/c of fundamental changes to the game that make it too starved of strategy, among other things. I'll give you another example. My NBA team's owner (not the Mavs... you guys realize, I hope, that a whole lotta Cowboys fans have no connection to DFW otherwise... ) has in the last 15 months, through words and actions, made it clear to me that he regards his NBA team as a financial investment, and his interest in the team's success on the floor is something less than his interest in the team's profit margin. That, to me, makes it almost impossible to think that team will ever climb to the top of the mountain... he will always have a limit on what he's willing to allow in the pursuit of a trophy. If he ever sells the team, I'll go back, but for as long as he is owner, there is no decent chance of any hope of ultimate success... so I've withdrawn. I choose not to care for now, and for as long as there is no change to the team's status.
Dallas Cowboys? Yes, I've disengaged for games or even seasons on occasion over the last 50-ish years. But for as long as hope springs, I'm here, and I'm interested, and I'm invested. It will not be my quasi-religion, but by my choice, I will enjoy the rollercoaster ride. Next year, if I perceive the Jones NFL franchise located in DFW is taking the season off, so will I. But right here right now, I'm sufficiently persuaded that they still really have expectations in 2024, and that's all I need to feel like this might be fun, and who knows, they might even do what no one thinks will get done.