I think theebs post was excellent. And it sounds like you have a bunch of inside perspective that someone thousands of miles away can't have.
I just can't believe an athlete or coach would trust anyone or "like" anyone from the media though. I'm not saying I don't believe you, what I'm saying is that I think it is naive for an althlete or coach to be that open with the media. I realize fans take this stuff way too seriously and that coaches ignore it for the most part, but to say this stuff can't have some affect I don't agree with.
Someone like TO strikes me as having a very fragile (yet large) ego. I think the guy is seriously sensitive and cares very much about how he is portrayed and probably more importantly how much he is portrayed. Same with Jerry, who apparently is on record for saying he likes this attention and scrutiny even if it's somewhat distracting or "negative". It's the Boy's in the news on a large stage/scale.
Some players can't stand it though (Oline, Barber, etc) and since everyone is human feelings can get ruffled. I believe there is some smoke with respect to WR's, how much TO is forced the ball, how much Witten is trusted and how comfortable he and Romo are. Remember, these are often young men with little experience in this arena. To think that internation and national media attention that may be inaccurate don't affect them is a bit of a leap. Now take stories that get sensationalized or someone who doesn't have a thick skin gets constantly pummelled and I feel that this affects athletes.
When a guy like Werder has one or two questions he can ask in a press conference or down on the field and he decides to ask a question similar to "do you think Witten gets thrown to too often" instead of, "what happened on that first interception where Romo threw to you down the left sideline", which one is important to a football fan? Probably both, but I think one is slimy and leading and one is more football related and journalistically sound. Both are "tough" questions. Maybe they aren't great examples, but I think you get my meaning. Just my opinion. I think the ESPN guys would rather ask the soap operal questions than, a question like, "how often does Gurode practice the shotgun snap, and is there any particular reason (sweaty hands, cold weather, etc) that it comes out like a lob?" Part of the problem is the fans are often just as guilty as the media, because we pay more attention to soap opera and not the "facts" or more meaty stuff.
Maybe I'm a cynic but I'd be sure as heck careful as to how comfy I'd be chatting with an Ed Werder down on the field (and I admit knowing nothing about him). Say the wrong thing and you could be out of a job or ruin your sports field reputation for a long time fair or not. I think a guy like Brian Stewart should not talk to a guy like that by choice. Stewarts job is on the line anyway, and for someone to accuse him of being a leak or a whiner behind the teams back would not do him any good.
It's the reporters job to get a story out, not to make the team or players look good, but do you really want your bad laundry or your weaknesses to be daily news? I wouldn't. I highly doubt Werder is a real "friend" even though I can't vouch for his professionalism, only give my opinion of how he comes across to me. I certainly don't think he should reveal sources as that is journalistic suicide.
Just some thoughts.
LarryCanadian