Ya know what? Maybe this doesn't matter but I'm gonna say it anyway....
I'm a Cajun. Ya know what we are called back home? Coonass. We we don't even shy away from it. But my grandparents had issues because back in the day, Cajun's weren't the most respected group of people. Anyone who even knows a Cajun will tell you about the way things were. But you know what? That was then. This is now. What happened to my grand[parents didn't happen to me. I didn't let it affect me. I didn't let it define me. I am a success today because I and my family "Got over it."
I could hold a lot of grudges because of what people called us but I don't. It's only when you let go of the past that you can truly move into the future.
You don't let your past define you. Especially if the past didn't happen to you.