A long time ago I learned that I have no personal control over what happens on the field, in the front office, in FA, on draft day etc.
None whatsoever. Since then it has made being just a fan much much easier.
I don't have to have the angst of "we've been letting it ride for 28years" because my identity is not wrapped up in a Cowboys game result a season result or in. Anything the team does whether it be win a Superbowl or make playoffs 3 times in 3 years, not done since the 90s and on verge of 3 12 win seasons.
All of those are nice, but at end of day, I have zero control over any of it.
Since that day, life has had at least 16 weeks of more peace each year.