See that's where your mistake is and the mistake many of you often make here. I don't expect him to stay in his house, button up that collar, go to church everyday, etc.
Go out. Have fun. Spend time with your friends. Go drinking. Go gambling. Go to a strip club. Go golfing. Go boating. Go on a Caribbean vacation. Whatever. Just don't do anything stupid that puts you in a negative light, which unfortunately he has done. Again, when the kid's own father is basically publicly pleading for his kid to wise up, it's bizarre that you guys think what he's doing is "normal". It's not.