In 1995, I worked for Capital Blue Cross Insurance in their Computer Division in one of their PA offices.
One night my co-workers were sneaking around the office with a signup sheet. They were trying to keep me from knowing what they were doing. I got curious and confronted my supervisor about it. He told me they were looking for persons interested in going on a bus trip to the E-Girls-Cowboys game in Veteran Stadium.
Right after, I went to my co-workers and stated I was very interested in going and they let me sign their list. Less than an hour later, my one co-worker pulled me aside and told me they took a 'poll' about letting me go along with them. They were concerned I would be wearing my Cowboys coat, jersey and hat to the game. He told me I was not welcome to go on the trip.
I asked him 'Why not?'. He told me they were afraid I would get them all 'beat up'.
At that time in my life, I was at the peak of body building and Im not trying to brag, I was pretty pumped up. I looked at him an said "Do you REALLY think I am afraid of getting beat up at the game by E-Girls fans?"
He replied, "No, that's the problem. We are 'concerned' you might get us beat up. The others put me in charge of asking you politely to not to go to the game with us or most everyone will not go at all."
I was livid & seething with anger inside. However, I kept my mouth shut about it, even though I wanted to tell what POS I thought they were.
Two days later, I quit. Luckily right after that, I got a job with PSINet Internet Serivce doing Tech Support in their Call Center and it turned out to be the best job I every held.